Rahaju Counseling References 2009
They only learn that sex is passionate, spontaneous, and unplanned behavior.
other hand tradttional sex education still focused only
In the
to the knowledge
developmen and related only to the body changes.
From the community counseling approach,
it
came up schema and syllabus
for
intervention ,rrhich more integrated for pleventive and curative actions to help
adolescents frorn the risks
ofrapid technologt developrnent in information.
REFERRENCES
Ali, Mohammad & Asrori, Mohamnad. 2005. Psikologi Remaja : Perkembangan
Peserta Didik Jakarta : PT. Bumi Aksara.
Andayan| Tri Rejeki & Setiawan, Imam Perilaku Seksual Pranikah dan Sikap
terhadap Aborsi. Jurnal Psikologi. Universitas Diponegoro. 1-8. Vol.2,
No.2., Desember 2005
,
.
Eriandani, Rizhy. (2006). Situs Porno dan Kesehatan Mental.Retrieved November
15, 2006from http://halamansatunel
Lewis, Judith A., Lewis, Michael D., Daniels, Judy A., D'Andrea, Michael J.(2003).
Community Cotmseling. Empowerment Stategies For A Diverse Society.3d
edition. USA. Brooks/Cole-Thomson Learning
Rosiana, Dewi & Borualogo, Ilxana Sabriani. (2007). Sex Education for Anak
Jalanan. In Proceeding of International Conference. Improving the Quality
of Human Life : Multidisciplinary Approach on Strategic Relevance for
Urban Issues.25h Anniversary Faculty of Psychologt.Univercity of
Surabaya. 86-89.
Jensen, Gordon D., M.D.(1976). Adolescent Sennlity. In Sadoch Beryamin J.,
Kaplan, Harold 1., M.D., Freedman, Alfred M., M.D. The Senml
Experience. (1976). (lSA:Iltilliams & Wilkins Company.
Pauly, Ira. B.,M.D.(|976). Premarital and Extrat arital Intercourse. In Sadoch
Benjamin J., Kaplan, Harold 1., M.D., Freedman, Alfred M., M.D.The
S e xua I Expe r ie nce. (I 9 7 6). USA : Ili I I i ams & llti I kins C.ompa ny.
Teaching Teens About Senni Pleasure.http://www. thefreelibrary.com /teaching+
I een,t +
about - sexual
+
pleasure
12
09/09n009
I
tntroduction
gggs"
lBgEg"
o ln 2@ ccntury, intemet becorne the most'
popular sourco for info|7?7€fion
. Besides gattes, pomogtaphy becones the
sec.N facilities tlrat user ot intemet were
looking for (Cooper in Edandani,
.
RizM
In lrronesia,
fbst growing smalt business.
bgcolrFs a
WARNEr gvarung lntemet
We cal,ed it'1elv
=lntemet's CafO)
lntroduction
DATA
.
o Strdy with 50 high schoo, sludents
o 4if stu&nts (86%) had acc€ssed
pomognpny
.
For adolesc€nts, a@ss to pomognphy
becomas very easy, because of these
Wamet existetws.
Pomognphy in intemat for actolos@nts
becomes atttaclive bec€,use it was Cheap,
Easy
aN Pivate (Undercow)
.
.
32 students (74.3%) had ac,cessed trcm
rental intefl?€t
6 stu&nts (1 3.9%) accessed it almost every
day, anc! 6 students (13.9%) a@ssed it
mo@ than onc€ a week
09n9n00s)
DATA
EXPLANATIONS
.
.
Adobwt t had
.
thair sexual biologi@l tt7F,turiy.
lt coultt bitry wonies, st6sses, guilty fe€litus
for struggling to control these imputses
Whafs stu&nts' parception of pomognphy ?
Top th|e,e anst,BB werc :
S€xua, ,tlercoutse, Man aN wotrl€,n nu&,
Sexual pleasu,E
mere was a positiw and signifrcant conelation
between attittxF,s of pomogaplry in intemet
with sexuat behaior of ado/€,ffints (F0'37 ,
1
and p=9.0O91.
E,(PLANATIONS
.
ActeEsed to pomography via intemd had impad
that doles@nts had cf,;rceilion, undc|sl ding lh8,
soxud bahaviou was analque wilh spontaneus (it
juEt haryns), tull of Pas'ion as they usually seen it
in
.
int
let
Fq EaEt Addes{,en{s, fhesg cotlditons bocomes
morc complicatad, becauie of the social nq/fis (P)t
sex as laDoos, nd allowing sexual adiw belue
ns'Tiage, @uld not s'€'d( it open, etc.)
.
sex imPuls€,s bec€usa
of
Seei,E pomognphy (gxual intercourse, etc.)
migtt beconE.. a&iclivo belraviorfor
adobwnts |€/lated to *xual plaasue, or be
th€ only on-n&el for sexual behaior
COMMUN'TY COUA'SEL"VG
A,et-
Cliant
(ott.dlPrqndn)
C.atdt lim a
aount
linglu
M*Fvln tlgll b .a *t q
lndired - Client
(sr#.No..n e !I/t*
p.e)n
h
r/',r$E Avdtrttdl b
polby
n*a
lq c.'rlodrrg ,ott'o4'. PrtY
LtidlJ'l',tt t t
Dird - CommunttY
(ffiY.EdrEl4
,W, fnclfio,r.l 8.x E tucrttot
Ptv.ttt lt
lndirect
-
Shtd.i6
Connunity
lAd,le.cyACod@
P.r!.|6', Scrto., Txcr.ts
Ptldtufir.t /bts.d Edtb.la,
2
09n9n009
Non Tnditional Sex Education
Non Tnditional Sex Education
.
Topica in thase
.
t
ln traditiond sex aducation was te€r,hing soxual
only by le&ning the andomy of gmid,
t€ptldudion organs. lt @uld bing pg{spedives that
sexud is metdy intetcpu/'ae.
Sexual is tha totality ol a porson-physiaally, spiritual,
sociel, emolional d dlhrd.
The oi//pn ot ffief€ ptwn,n€ w8 build V a vhole
undofd ding of saxual bchavior which flay
inpttnt keys lor adolecf,.nb seff @ntoL sell
decision and sdf ddl
t.
2.
3.
a
5
t.
7.
a
Nogran€ :
Knowing My Seff
Sex Developnente
Pleasu€ and PoD.lens ,h Sax Dewropm€ri8
Lov9. lntimacy
h Human RdatiotrE
Lova and &x in Multi Cultual Difrarences
Lova, Sex atd Spirifud we| Being
sale end Heallh Sex
Selt Ma,agemdtt in *xud
Bdpyiq
Conclusions
.
.
Ponqaphy in intemd hd
dffi
to
dolesc
ts
because ot the charccteistics: ea'y, fast, cheap
and wivaE. &ut it also gNe adolesoF"nta a wong
undeEtanding of iex, and rrculd cause dlly to aex
a|o'Jsal withoLlt sell csiroL
Frcm lhe conmunv counsding approach, it came
upschema d 8flabua lor htet\lq km wfiich more
integnted for !/iev€ntiva and curative di@s to halp
sdclescerfs thom ft e ,sr(s ol npid technolqy
development in
infomatidl
3
other hand tradttional sex education still focused only
In the
to the knowledge
developmen and related only to the body changes.
From the community counseling approach,
it
came up schema and syllabus
for
intervention ,rrhich more integrated for pleventive and curative actions to help
adolescents frorn the risks
ofrapid technologt developrnent in information.
REFERRENCES
Ali, Mohammad & Asrori, Mohamnad. 2005. Psikologi Remaja : Perkembangan
Peserta Didik Jakarta : PT. Bumi Aksara.
Andayan| Tri Rejeki & Setiawan, Imam Perilaku Seksual Pranikah dan Sikap
terhadap Aborsi. Jurnal Psikologi. Universitas Diponegoro. 1-8. Vol.2,
No.2., Desember 2005
,
.
Eriandani, Rizhy. (2006). Situs Porno dan Kesehatan Mental.Retrieved November
15, 2006from http://halamansatunel
Lewis, Judith A., Lewis, Michael D., Daniels, Judy A., D'Andrea, Michael J.(2003).
Community Cotmseling. Empowerment Stategies For A Diverse Society.3d
edition. USA. Brooks/Cole-Thomson Learning
Rosiana, Dewi & Borualogo, Ilxana Sabriani. (2007). Sex Education for Anak
Jalanan. In Proceeding of International Conference. Improving the Quality
of Human Life : Multidisciplinary Approach on Strategic Relevance for
Urban Issues.25h Anniversary Faculty of Psychologt.Univercity of
Surabaya. 86-89.
Jensen, Gordon D., M.D.(1976). Adolescent Sennlity. In Sadoch Beryamin J.,
Kaplan, Harold 1., M.D., Freedman, Alfred M., M.D. The Senml
Experience. (1976). (lSA:Iltilliams & Wilkins Company.
Pauly, Ira. B.,M.D.(|976). Premarital and Extrat arital Intercourse. In Sadoch
Benjamin J., Kaplan, Harold 1., M.D., Freedman, Alfred M., M.D.The
S e xua I Expe r ie nce. (I 9 7 6). USA : Ili I I i ams & llti I kins C.ompa ny.
Teaching Teens About Senni Pleasure.http://www. thefreelibrary.com /teaching+
I een,t +
about - sexual
+
pleasure
12
09/09n009
I
tntroduction
gggs"
lBgEg"
o ln 2@ ccntury, intemet becorne the most'
popular sourco for info|7?7€fion
. Besides gattes, pomogtaphy becones the
sec.N facilities tlrat user ot intemet were
looking for (Cooper in Edandani,
.
RizM
In lrronesia,
fbst growing smalt business.
bgcolrFs a
WARNEr gvarung lntemet
We cal,ed it'1elv
=lntemet's CafO)
lntroduction
DATA
.
o Strdy with 50 high schoo, sludents
o 4if stu&nts (86%) had acc€ssed
pomognpny
.
For adolesc€nts, a@ss to pomognphy
becomas very easy, because of these
Wamet existetws.
Pomognphy in intemat for actolos@nts
becomes atttaclive bec€,use it was Cheap,
Easy
aN Pivate (Undercow)
.
.
32 students (74.3%) had ac,cessed trcm
rental intefl?€t
6 stu&nts (1 3.9%) accessed it almost every
day, anc! 6 students (13.9%) a@ssed it
mo@ than onc€ a week
09n9n00s)
DATA
EXPLANATIONS
.
.
Adobwt t had
.
thair sexual biologi@l tt7F,turiy.
lt coultt bitry wonies, st6sses, guilty fe€litus
for struggling to control these imputses
Whafs stu&nts' parception of pomognphy ?
Top th|e,e anst,BB werc :
S€xua, ,tlercoutse, Man aN wotrl€,n nu&,
Sexual pleasu,E
mere was a positiw and signifrcant conelation
between attittxF,s of pomogaplry in intemet
with sexuat behaior of ado/€,ffints (F0'37 ,
1
and p=9.0O91.
E,(PLANATIONS
.
ActeEsed to pomography via intemd had impad
that doles@nts had cf,;rceilion, undc|sl ding lh8,
soxud bahaviou was analque wilh spontaneus (it
juEt haryns), tull of Pas'ion as they usually seen it
in
.
int
let
Fq EaEt Addes{,en{s, fhesg cotlditons bocomes
morc complicatad, becauie of the social nq/fis (P)t
sex as laDoos, nd allowing sexual adiw belue
ns'Tiage, @uld not s'€'d( it open, etc.)
.
sex imPuls€,s bec€usa
of
Seei,E pomognphy (gxual intercourse, etc.)
migtt beconE.. a&iclivo belraviorfor
adobwnts |€/lated to *xual plaasue, or be
th€ only on-n&el for sexual behaior
COMMUN'TY COUA'SEL"VG
A,et-
Cliant
(ott.dlPrqndn)
C.atdt lim a
aount
linglu
M*Fvln tlgll b .a *t q
lndired - Client
(sr#.No..n e !I/t*
p.e)n
h
r/',r$E Avdtrttdl b
polby
n*a
lq c.'rlodrrg ,ott'o4'. PrtY
LtidlJ'l',tt t t
Dird - CommunttY
(ffiY.EdrEl4
,W, fnclfio,r.l 8.x E tucrttot
Ptv.ttt lt
lndirect
-
Shtd.i6
Connunity
lAd,le.cyACod@
P.r!.|6', Scrto., Txcr.ts
Ptldtufir.t /bts.d Edtb.la,
2
09n9n009
Non Tnditional Sex Education
Non Tnditional Sex Education
.
Topica in thase
.
t
ln traditiond sex aducation was te€r,hing soxual
only by le&ning the andomy of gmid,
t€ptldudion organs. lt @uld bing pg{spedives that
sexud is metdy intetcpu/'ae.
Sexual is tha totality ol a porson-physiaally, spiritual,
sociel, emolional d dlhrd.
The oi//pn ot ffief€ ptwn,n€ w8 build V a vhole
undofd ding of saxual bchavior which flay
inpttnt keys lor adolecf,.nb seff @ntoL sell
decision and sdf ddl
t.
2.
3.
a
5
t.
7.
a
Nogran€ :
Knowing My Seff
Sex Developnente
Pleasu€ and PoD.lens ,h Sax Dewropm€ri8
Lov9. lntimacy
h Human RdatiotrE
Lova and &x in Multi Cultual Difrarences
Lova, Sex atd Spirifud we| Being
sale end Heallh Sex
Selt Ma,agemdtt in *xud
Bdpyiq
Conclusions
.
.
Ponqaphy in intemd hd
dffi
to
dolesc
ts
because ot the charccteistics: ea'y, fast, cheap
and wivaE. &ut it also gNe adolesoF"nta a wong
undeEtanding of iex, and rrculd cause dlly to aex
a|o'Jsal withoLlt sell csiroL
Frcm lhe conmunv counsding approach, it came
upschema d 8flabua lor htet\lq km wfiich more
integnted for !/iev€ntiva and curative di@s to halp
sdclescerfs thom ft e ,sr(s ol npid technolqy
development in
infomatidl
3