Positive Politeness Politeness strategy
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The example above showed that the speaker used in-group identity markers by saying guys intended to the hearers. The word guys was used to address a group of
people of either sex. The address form was used to convey such in-group membership including generic names and terms of address.
5 Strategy 5: Seek agreement; repetition – agreement may also be stressed
by repeating part or all of what the preceding speaker has said
Another way to save positive face of hearer is to seek ways in which it is possibl
e to agree with him or her. Seek agreement may be stressed by raising ‘safe topic’ and repeating what the preceding speaker has said in a conversation. The
example is below: A:
“John went to London this weekend” B:
“To London” From the example above, we could see the speaker A said to the hearer B that
John went to London this weekend. As the response, the hearer repeated what the preceding speaker has said before by saying to London
6 Strategy 6: Avoid disagreement; token agreement, pseudo-agreement, white lies, hedging opinions.
The desire to agree or appear to agree with hearer leads to mechanism for pretending to agree. By using this strategy, the speakers may go in twisting their
utterances to agree or to hide disagreement. The example is below. A:
“That’s where you live, Florida?”
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B: “That’s where I was born.”
The speaker asked for information to the hearer named Florida whether she lived in that place or not. As the response, the hearer answered by avoiding
disagreement. She did not say t hat the speaker’s question was incorrect.
7 Strategy 7: Presupposeraiseassert common ground; gossip, small talk, point-of-view operations, presupposition manipulations.
This strategy is widely used by the speakers as a way to indicate that the speake
rs know hearer’s wants, tastes, habits, etc. and thus partially to redress the imposition of FTA’s.
Example: place switch – the use of proximal rather than distal
demonstratives: “This is a man I could trust” proximal versus
“That is a man I could trust” distal demonstratives.
8 Strategy 8: Joke
Jokes are based on mutual shared background knowledge and values that they redefine the size of FTA. The example is
“OK if I tackle those cookies now?
”
9 Strategy 9: Assert or presuppose speaker’s knowledge of and concern for hearer’s wants.
This strategy is done by asserting knowledge of hearer’s wants and willingness to fit one’s own wants in with them.
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Example: “I know you love roses but the florist didn’t have any more, so I
brought you geraniums instead. ”
10 Strategy 10: Offer, Promise
This strategy is done to redress the potential threat of some FTAs. Speakers may claim that whatever hearer wants, the speaker wants for him or her
and will help to obtain. The example is “I will drop by sometime next week.” The
speaker promised to the hearer that she or he would drop by sometime next week.
11 Strategy 11: Be optimistic
This strategy assumes that hearer will cooperate with speaker because it will be in their mutual shared interest. For example, someone said to somebody
before using his or her bike. The example is “You’ll lend me your bike, right?”
The hearer was optimistic that the hearer would lend her or him a bike.
12 Strategy 12: Include both speaker and hearer in the activity
This strategy is done by using an inclusive ‘we’ form, when the speaker
really means ‘you’ or ‘me’. The example is “We will shut the door, ma’am. The wind’s coming in.”
13 Strategy 13: Give or ask for reasons
Another aspect of including hearer in the activity is demanding reasons ‘why not’ and assuming that hearer has no good reason why cannot help.
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Example: “Why not lend me your cottage for a week?”
The word “why” was used to ask for what reason. The hearer asked for reason to the hearer not to lend the speaker a cottage for a period of seven days.
14 Strategy 14: Assume or assert reciprocity
The strategy is done by giving evidence of reciprocal right or obligations obtaining between speaker and hearer.
Example: “I’ll lend you dictionary if you lend me your book.”
A reciprocity is a behavior in which two people give each other help and advantages. In the example above, the speaker said that she or he would lend the
hearer a dictionary if the hearer lend the speaker a book.
15 Strategy 15: Give gifts to hearer goods, sympathy, understanding, cooperation
To satisfy hearer’s positive face, the speaker may do this classic strategy. That is to give a gift not only tangible gifts but also human-relation wants such to
be liked, to be admired. Example: “You’re such a very kind-hearted boy. Would you help me to move this
table?”
The speaker gave a gift to the hearer by complimenting the hearer before asking for help. She or he said that the hearer was such a very kind-hearted boy. The
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word kind-hearted is an adjective which intended to the person who likes and always wants to help other people.