COMMUNICATION STYLES USED BY MALE AND FEMALE TV TALK SHOW HOSTS.

COMMUNICATION STYLES USED BY MALE AND FEMALE
TV TALK SHOW HOSTS

A Thesis

Submitted to the English Applied Linguistics Study Program in
Partial Fulfillment of the Requirement for the Degree of
Magister Humaniora

By

NOVI DIAN ISRA
Registration Number: 8126111025

ENGLISH APPLIED LINGUISTICS PROGRAM
POSTGRADUATE SCHOOL
STATE UNIVERSITY OF MEDAN
MEDAN
2016

ABSTRACT


NOVI DIAN ISRA. Communication Styles Used by Male and Female TV Talk
Show Hosts. Post Graduate School of the State University of Medan, 2016
The aims of this study were to discover the communication styles used by male
and female TV talk show hosts. The method of the tudy is descriptive qualitative
by using documentary technique. The source of the data is the talks of the male
and female TV talk show hosts. The TV talk shows chosen were those which
discussed both political and social issues. There were four TV talk show hosts
who were studied. Two of them represented the male TV talk show hosts and the
other two represented the female ones. A video from each TV talk show host was
chosen randomly and all of them were broadcasted in April 2015. The data were
analyzed by using interactive model by Miles and Huberman (2014). This study
has drawn these results: (1) both of the male and female TV talk show hosts used
the three dominant communication styles, the Socratic, the Noble, and the
Reflective communication styles while interviewing their guest stars, (2) both of
the male and female TV talk show hosts used the male and female speech
features, and (3) the male and female TV talk show hosts used the same
communication styles because both the male and female hosts showed the men’s
traits more frequently than the women’s while interviewing their guests.


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ABSTRAK

Novi Dian Isra. Gaya Berkomunikasi yang Digunakan oleh Pembawa Acara TV
Talk Show Laki-laki dan Perempuan. Sebuah Tesis. Program Pasca Sarjana
Universitas Negeri Medan, 2016
Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui gaya berkomunikasi yang digunakan
oleh oembawa acara TV talk show laki-laki dan perempuan. Metode penelitian
yang digunakan adalah kualitatif deskriptif dengan memakai teknik documenter.
Sumber data adalah ujaran-ujaran dari pembawa acara TV talk show laki-laki dan
perempuan. Acara TV talk show yang dipilih adalah acara TV talk show yang
membahas masalah-maslah politik dan social. Ada empat pembawa acara TV talk
show yang dikaji. Dua diantaranya adalah pembawa acara laki-laki dan dua
lainnya adalah pembawa acara perempuan. Video dari setiap pembawa acara
dipilih secara acak dan kesemuanya ditayangkan pada bulan April 2015. Data
dianalisa dengan menggunakan interactive model oleh Miles dan Huberman
(2014). Penelitian ini menemukan hasil-hasil sebagai berikut: (1) baik pembawa
acara TV talk show laki-laki dan perempuan menggunakan gaya berkomunikasi
yang dominan, Socratic, Noble, dan Reflective ketika mewawancarai bintang

tamu, (2) baik pembawa acara TV talk show laki-laki dan perempuan
menggunakan fitur-fitur ujaran laki-laki dan perempuan, dan (3) pembawa acara
TV talk show laki-laki dan perempuan menggnakan gaya berkomunikasi yang
sama ketika mewawancarai bintang tamu karena baik pembawa acara laki-laki
dan perempuan menunjukkan lebih banyak sifat-sifat pria daripada sifat-sifat
wanita ketika mewawancarai bintang tamu.

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ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
This thesis becomes a reality with the kind of support and help of many
individuals. The researcher would like to extend her sincere thanks to all of them.
Foremost, she would like to thank Allah Almighty for giving the strength
to finish this thesis. Without His blessings, she would not be able to accomplish
her study.
She would like to express her deepest gratitude to her advisers, Prof. Dr.
Sri Minda Murni, MS and Dr. I Wayan Dirgayasa, M.Hum for their full support,
expert guidance, understanding and encouragement throughout her research.
Without their incredible patience and timely wisdom, her thesis work would have
been a frustrating and overwhelming pursuit. In addition, she expresses her

appreciation to her reviewers, Prof. Dr. Busmin Gurning, M.Pd, Dr. Zainuddin,
M.Hum, and Dr. Anni Holila Pulungan, M.Hum. Their thoughtful questions and
comments were valued greatly.
She would like to thank her mother for her endless prayers and support
and for believing her that she was able to handle the problems she faced
throughout the writing of this thesis. She would also like to thank her parents-inlaw for their support and taking care of the kids while she was busy with her
study.
She would also like to show her gratitude for having such a supportive
husband, Muhammad Herwin. He is always there for helping and supporting her
and gives her his endless love. She would also like to thank her beloved sons,

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Muhammad Rafif Izzat and Muhammad Azka Habibi for always hugging and
kissing her when she was down throughout the time of her study.
She would also like to express how grateful she is for having supportive
sisters and brother. They always help her whenever she needs and show her the
meaning of having the truly siblings.
Finally, she would also like to thank her friends in LTBI especially class
A2 2012 for sharing experience and knowledge. The moments shared with them

will not be forgotten

Medan, 5th September 2016

Novi Dian Isra

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

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ABSTRACT………………………………...………………………………

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ACKNOWLEDGEMENT…………………………………………………

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TABLE OF CONTENTS.............................................................................


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LIST OF TABLES…………………………….…………………………...

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CHAPTER I: INTRODUCTION................................................................

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1.1. The Background of the Study..........................................................

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1.2. The Problems of the Study...............................................................

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1.3. The Objectives of the Study.............................................................


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1.4. The Scope of the Study....................................................................

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1.5. The Significance of the Study..........................................................

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CHAPTER II: REVIEW OF LITERATURE............................................

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2.1. Theoretical Framework……………………………..……………..

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2.1.1. Communication......................................................................


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2.1.1.1. Verbal Communication............................................

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2.1.1.2. Nonverbal Communication......................................

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2.1.2. Communication Styles...........................................................

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2.1.2.1. Noble........................................................................

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2.1.2.2. Socratic.....................................................................


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2.1.2.3. Reflective..................................................................

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2.1.2.4. Magistrate.................................................................

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2.1.2.5. Candidate..................................................................

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2.1.2.6. Senator......................................................................

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2.1.3. Gender


Differences

between

Men

and

Women

in Communication…………………………………………..

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2.1.4. Male Versus Female Communication Styles…….................

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2.1.5. Factors Affecting Different Communication Styles….……..


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2.1.6. TV Talk Shows.......................................................................

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2.2. Relevant Studies...............................................................................

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2.3. Conceptual Framework…………………………………………….

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CHAPTER III: RESEARCH METHOD..................................................

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3.1. Research Method..............................................................................

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3.2. The Object of the Research...............................................................

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3.3. The Source of Data...........................................................................

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3.4. Techniques of Data Collection.........................................................

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3.5. Instrument…………………………………..………………….......

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3.6. The Trustworthiness of the Study.....................................................

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3.7. Techniques of Data Analysis……....................................................

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CHAPTER IV: DATA ANALYSIS, FINDINGS, AND DISCUSSION..

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4.1. Data Analysis……………………………..………………………..

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4.1.1. Communication Style Used by the Male and Female TV
Talk Show Hosts…………………..………………………..

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4.1.1.1. Socratic…………………………………………….

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4.1.1.2. Noble……………………………………………….

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4.1.1.3. Reflective…………………………………………..

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4.1.2. The Realization of the Male and Female TV Talk Show
Hosts’ Communication Styles…………..………………….

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4.1.2.1. Male Speech Features…………..……………...…..

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4.1.2.2. Female Speech Features………………...…..……...

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4.1.3. The Reasons of Using Certain Communication Styles by the
Male and Female TV Talk Show Hosts………………..…...

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4.1.3.1. Men’s Traits……………..…………………………

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4.1.3.2. Women’s Traits………………..…………………..

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4.2. Findings………………………………………..…………………..

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4.3. Discussion……………………………………..…………………...

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CHAPTER V: CONCLUSIONS AND SUGGESTIONS……………….

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5.1. Conclusions………………………………………………………..

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5.2. Suggestions………………………………………………………...

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REFERENCES.............................................................................................

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APPENDIX………………………………………………………………...

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CHAPTER V
CONCLUSIONS AND SUGGESTIONS
5.1. Conclusions
With the reference to the research problems, some conclusions are drawn
as follows:
(1) The male and female TV talk show hosts used the same communication styles
while interviewing the guests. The used communication styles were the
Socratic, the Noble, and the Reflective communication styles. The Socratic
communication style was used the most since the hots showed its
characteristics the most and the most frequently, while the Noble and the
Reflective communication styles became the supporting communication styles
while interviewing the guests.
(2) The male and female TV talk show hosts used both of the male and female
speech features. They did not use all of the male speech features. However,
the male hosts used more features than the female ones did. They also used
these features more frequently than the female ones did. The male and female
hosts did not use all of the female speech features either. The female hosts
used more features than the male ones did. They used these features more
frequently too. However, the female hosts used the male speech features more
than the male ones used the female speech features.
(3) The male and female TV talk show hosts showed the common stereotypes of
men and women. Both of the male and female hosts did not show all of the
men’s traits. The female hosts showed almost as many men’s traits as the male

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ones did. The female hosts only did not show one trait that the male ones did
which was the ‘dominant’ trait. They did not show the men’s traits as
frequently as the male ones did, but it was not too much different. The male
and female hosts did not show all of the women’s traits. The female hosts
showed more traits than the male ones did. The male hosts showed 2 women’s
traits which was also shown by the female ones. These two traits became the
most shown women’s traits by both of the male and female TV talk show
hosts. Furthermore, the male hosts showed the women’s traits as frequently as
the female ones did. It means that the female hosts did not really show that
they were female because they showed the men’s traits almost as frequently as
the male ones did. It brings to the conclusion that it became the factors which
caused the male and female TV talk show hosts used the same communication
styles. While interviewing the guests, the male and female TV talk show hosts
did not really show that they were psychologically different.

5.2. Suggestions
In relations to the conclusions which have been stated in the previous,
some constructive points are suggested as follows:
(1) In relation to the findings of this study, it is suggested to make academic
research in order to find out the use of certain communication styles between
men and women because a certain phenomenon may have different results
from the most academic research found as what was found in this study.
(2) it is suggested for the other researchers to make other research about the use of
communication styles across gender with other participants. It is suggested to

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find out whether the other participants will use similar or different
communication styles between the male and female.
(3) It is also suggested to make other research about TV talk show hosts since
they are potential participants which produce many languages which are
possible to be studied. It is also suggested because TV talk shows have been
very popular among society from time to time and, therefore, it is always
interested to study the hosts’ languages.

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