Parenting 001
SPEECH TITLE: WHAT DOES IT TAKES TO BE A GOOD PARENT?
Parenting tips sharing
help your children to build character
INTRODUCTION
During the early childhood, parents will be the main influence in the child’s learning experience and education.
Parents behavior brings impact on the development of the child.
Positive environment can produce Great learning experiences for children, and vise versa.
LOVE YOUR CHILD
Show love & affection to your child
all the time.
UNCONDITIONAL
A warm touch or a caring hug can let your children know how much you really care about them.
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Make a habit of Praising your child whenever they accomplish something good.
Let them know that you feel proud
AVOID COMPARING & AVOID FAVOURISM Each child is
individual and unique.
Avoid comparing
your children to others, especially
Comparing one child to another can also siblings. make one child develop a jealousy with his or her sibling. You want to nurture a loving relationship between your children, not a competitive one.
Avoid favoritism. Surveys have shown that most parents have favorites, If your children are quarreling, don't choose
WORK ON COMMUNICATIONS
Children should never be afraid to speak with parents.No matter how tough the topic, even if they messed up badly, they should not fear that we will hate them or scold them badly.
Do daily interactions where you reserve time and energy for them. Talk to your child every day-even just for a few minutes.
Speak to your child in the tone and with the words that you wish he would use with others.
Express your love every day, no matter how tough the day.
BE A GOOD ROLE MODEL
Children have a tendency to become what they see and hear.
Parents should try their best to Control temper/anger, all the time.
It's perfectly okay to make mistakes, but you should apologize or let your child know that the behavior is not good. Eg:
say something like, "Mommy didn't mean to yell at you. She was just very upset." Apologize is better than
ignoring that you made a mistake, because that will
HELP YOUR CHILDREN TO
Teach them to be independent. Don't make decisions for them all the time Let them learn that their own actions have consequences (good / bad) Don't routinely do things for your children
that they can learn to do for themselves.
Respect child's privacy as you would want them to respect yours.
Start encourage healthy lifestyle from younger age.
CONCLUSION
In conclusion, Your parenting will have a life-
long effect on your child and you shouldalways give your child the love and affection
he needs, even if you're hundreds of miles away.
While you won't always be a constant daily
presence in your child's life, you shouldalways let your children know that you care
about them and that you'll be there for them, no matter what.
Your children will still turn to you for advice,
and will still be affected by what you say no
matter what age they are.CONCLUSION
Don't place unreasonable expectations on your child.
There's a difference between wanting your child to be a responsible, mature individual and forcing your child to be perfect or to live up to your idea of what perfect should be.
Don't push your child to get perfect grades; instead, encourage good study habits, and let your child put in the effort that he is capable of.