Esteem needs Finding and Discussion

10 By father‟s love, Lily can fulfill esteem needs. Her father tries to develop Lily‟s skill. He hires two instructors of skiing so that Lily‟s ability increase. Bill Thomas tries to increase Lily‟s ability sothat Lily gets respect from other. Lily is recognized by people that she can play ski. She can show her ability to the others.

5. Self actualization Needs

Furthermore, a person can be called self-actualizer if shehe has the characteristics of self-actualization. Lily Thomas can satisfy the characteristics of self-actualization as follows: a. More Efficient Perception of Reality Lily Thomas can receive reality clearly. When she knows that she gets an accident and will never walk again, she can more accept her fate than her father. She is strong and patient girl. Although that is so difficult for her but she always tries to accept it. She tries to survive. She takes a course at Craig hospital. She studies everything at Craig Hospital. She studies to swim, play skiing, drive a car, shopping etc. Her father doesn‟t accept Lily‟s fate and tries to consult with other doctor in the world. Directly, Lily asks to her doctor about her condition because her father doesn‟t talk anything about her condition. Lily is given many spirit by her doctor. Lily can live like normal people although she is in wheelchair. She can lead her life become a gold life. Her father invites Lily to go around the world. He tries to consult with other doctors in the world. He hopes that other doctor says that Lily still has hope to walk again. Finally, all of the doctors say same thing that Lily will never walk again. Bill Thomas is so sad and he cries. Lily was more ready to face the truth than her father was Steel, 2013: 93. I‟m never going to get out of this chair again, am I? Lily ask bluntly. She had suspected it from everything that had been said, but her father kept telling her otherwise, with incredible determination, and he had never lied to her before Steel, 2013: 93. 11 Lily can also accept when her best friend leaves her when she knows that Lily will never walk again. Even her boyfriend also leaves her. Lily is patient to face it. Lily has a new friend at Craig Hospital, he is Teddy. He is so kind and cares with Lily. Teddy has an injury like Lily but Lily is lower than Teddy‟s injury. Lily is so happy to have friend like Teddy. Teddy is a pleasant friend. When Lily finishes her course at Craig Hospital, she still visits Teddy at Craig Hospital. Lily doesn‟t want to remember Teddy like Teddy‟s friend that leaves him. Even Teddy‟s family seldom visit him. It is so sad thing for Teddy. When Lily comes back to school, Lily is patient and tries to accept it when her friends begin to avoid her. Lily thinks that she still has father and other friends that loves her so much. She attempts to face this. Everything has changed and Lily must start from the beginning to start a new life. Although Lily is sad, nervous and fear. „What about you? re you upset about Jeremy? ... Kind of,‟ she admitted,‟but I‟m not really surprised Steel, 2013: 139. b. Acceptance of Self, Others and Nature Lily Thomas has this characteristic. She can accept herself who will never walk again. She was diagnosed by the doctor that her spinal cord injury is complete and her leg doesn‟t have full function. She must use a wheelchair. She can accept it although she is difficult for her. She always attempt to survive and start a new life. Lily is more ready to face the truth than her father. Her father is difficult to accept his daughter fate. He invites Lily to around the world and consults with doctor there. Her father hopes that Lily can walk again. But that hope is damaged. The doctor says that Lily will never walk again. Lily attempts to accept it and she wants to go home and takes a course at Craig hospital. She can study to start a new life with her wheelchair in the Craig Hospital. She can learn to live alone without help from the other. Craig Hospital has many professional instructors. They can teach Lily to use a wheelchair in her

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