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Giffin, 2004:387. Rachel starts her new life with Dexter, and she realizes that her true love to
Dexter can help her out from the shadow of her parents marriage life. Whenever Rachel is with Dexter, everything makes sense. He makes her the person she
wants to be, instead of the person she is. The idea of life without him is not only unbearable, it is unimaginable and she wants to make Dexter happy too, by
saying: The truth is, I feel freer with Dex than I ever did when I was single. I feel
more myself with him than without. Maybe true love does that. And I do love Dex. I have loved him from the very beginning, back in law school,
when I pretended to myself that he wasn t my type. I love him for his intelligence, his sensitivity, his courage. I love him wholly and
unconditionally and without reservation. I love him enough to take risks. I love him enough to sacrifice a friendship. I love him enough to accept my
own happiness and use it, in turn, to make him happy back. Giffin, 2004:382.
b. Animus
Animus is the masculinity that is part of the unconscious on every woman. Whereas the anima represents irrational moods and feelings, the animus is
symbolic of thinking and reasoning. It is capable of influencing the thinking of a woman, yet it does not actually belong to her. It belongs to collective unconscious
and originates from the encounters of prehistoric women with men. Jung believes that the animus is responsible for thinking and opinion in women just as the anima
produces feelings and moods in men. The animus is also the explanation for the irrational thinking and illogical opinions often attributed to women. Feist,
2006:109
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2004:5.
Since then, Rachel does not want to be single. She wants to be a woman who has a man that can be her caretaker. That is the reason why Rachel feels her
life is so miserable when she reaches her thirtieth and still single. However, her animus makes her wants to be loved by finding a man who can be a good-
caretaker as she has imagined. But then, Rachel still cannot find a good-caretaker for her because she is too passive:
I review my three boyfriends, the three men I slept with in my twenties, searching for a common thread. Nothing. No consistent features, coloring,
stature, personality. But one theme does emerge: they all picked me. And then dumped me. I played the passive role. Waiting for Hunter and then
settling for Joey. Waiting to feel more for Nate. Then waiting to feel less. Waiting for Alec to go away and leaves me in peace. Giffin, 2004:70.
However, Rachel accidentally has affairs with her first love, Dexter. When she has affairs with Dexter, she feels something different. The feeling that makes
her wants to be an active role in relationship and makes her wants to get back her first love, Dexter. But the problem is that Dexter is Darcy s fiancé. Before
experiencing personality development, Rachel does not have any bravery to make
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