Festivals Life Circle and Rituals
39
2014
38
2014
After the couple discussed between themselves, they decided to send the second eldest son. hus, this middle son is called one who has been sacriiced. hat is
why the second eldest son should not perform funeral rites of his parents.
In the past Badis were not allowed to cremate. he kings and nobles imposed such restrictions because cremation was done by Bahuns. So Badis were not
allowed to do what Bahuns did. But nowadays Badi cremate the dead.
here is a belief that the pyre should be purchased. he chief mourner ofers two to three hundred rupees for the purchase of the pyre. After the body has
been completely burned or even if some small portions are not burnt some pieces of the body are tied with the
wat and placed in the river, which means that it reaches
Kashi. Alternatively, the pieces are cooled in a religious site. hen the mourners bathe. he children of the dead have their heads shaved by the
relative serving as the priest Bahun. All ofspring of the dead should wear
white clothes. All mourners bathe or sprinkle water on their bodies. In other communities, it is decided at the ghat the duration of death pollution. But in
the case of Badis when the mourners return home they build a ire near the house, adding thorns and pressing both under a stone. he mourners next step
on the stone, and then they are sprinkled with barley, sesame, and gold water and decide the duration of pollution, usually three, ive, seven, nine, eleven, or
thirteen days. According to the elders, it is decided on the basis of the economic condition of the household. But usually it is seven days at the maximum.
On the day of puriication, the role of Bahun is paramount. he day before the puriication is the day of eating the katto
katto khane, when they go the river bank at three or four in the morning and the family members and the chief
mourners eat chicken, yogurt, and milk, and the chief mourner also takes salt. On the day of puriication, because relatives and other people do not eat at the
deceased’s house, they are given fruits. hey organize a feast by sacriicing a pig or a goat. he Bahun gives dana to the daughters and sisters by putting
tika of yogurt, and puriies the house by sprinkling gold water. he
Bahun is also discharged after they receive
dakshina, as much as the household can give. It is believed that the deceased would reincarnate in the animal whose
ingerprints are found near the house during the night. A winnowing tray with ashes in it is placed in the rafter of the roof.
hado kriya is the rite performed the day after death, after noon of the next day. After death, no one in the household is allowed inside other people’s house and
vice versa. Badiss would not observe death pollution for a long time because they need to beg at other’s house for their daily food. Even if the deceased is not
a close relative, they perform the thado kriya.