Suwen’sWay of Life and Her Development in The Relationship With
Suwen disliked the way Nica saw the objects and subjects to become her paintings, too racial and prejudice toward the issue in the society 2003: 72.For
dozen times, Suwen was beaten and forced to follow the idealistic of an artist; based on the perspective of Nica‟s thought and behaviour, therefore this kind of
lack of confidence led herself to paint the society based on the narrow perspective of artificial freedom.
Different situation occured with Janice, Suwen admired Janice more than Nica because she had found the roots of her true family with Zul while Suwen
herself still trapped within her lack of uncertainty about the roots of her own family.
Suwen found complicated relationship with Mark Campbell, their relationship was depicted as the children who just ran away from their mother‟s
womb, running and catching as they desired, Suwen‟s desire of relationship with Mark was contained in her superego, she had realized herself to be falling in love
with Mark and wanted to have further relationship with him. Suwen had lived in the coverage of her own identity in the ancestral culture and race, she began to
think the marriage of love went hardand harder with Mark, The prohibition of marrying outside her race had made her cling to another realm of culture conflict
within Suwen‟sego, filled with shame that she began to think so prejudice against the male with different color and race, she was an educated chinese woman
though. The relationship with Mark was considered to be complicated inside the psychological treat of Suwen, Suwen‟sid stated that she loved and deeply in
missing Mark, hoping that he would give the attention to her, at last Mark didn‟t
give any sign for calling her. The writer would also remind that painting the society according to her own will attached in the
id’s realm.
The first three months were the dark-grey months of hopeless waiting, sitting by the phone each night, hoping that he would call and knowing
that he would not and pretending to herself that she was not waiting for hiss call anyway. She was exhausted by those mental games of depiction.
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Suwen called the condition of this relationship to be mentally abused, Suwen wanted to love and had further relationship with Mark, the desire of
getting attention from Mark had driven her out of control, Mark never called her once. Mark himself found his hesitation about the certainty of his own
masculinity, because of the experience of being beaten in the recent past.Suwen left Singapore and lived in the dark green forest of Malaysia peninsula, leaving
anything behind so that she could track down her family roots. Using Freudian interpretations in the
pysche’s id, the term “escaping”and “alienation” had become her ultimate choice and determination so that she could paint the Singapore. She
escaped the conflict within, therefore she put herself in the realm between society and family.Suwen chose to break away, leaving her body and soul untouchable
from the interference of men. The lovers‟ moan pursued her, pounding against her ears, rising and
falling in a crescendo of exaltation and confusion. Mark, oh, Mark I hate you I despise you I loathe her Lim, 2003: 294
In the end, the relationship between Nica and Suwen had broken because of Mark‟s nude painting. Suwen was angry and protested the way Nica painting
about the ugliness of men in all their shape and masculinity. Suwen was sick and questioned Nica for several times on the reason why she chose Mark over
somebody else, Nica stated that was Mark‟s own desire to be sketched, Nica‟s word poured out like lightning tunder that ruin the conscious realm of Mark
Campbell, Mark began showing the confidence and pride as a man, leaving the uncertainty of his own masculinity. This considered to be the act of betrayal from
them, Nica and Mark. Using Global and Postcolonial feminists‟ concern about sexuality injustice
that happened in the society, the reality background of Nica urged Mark to pose like a common girl that was exploited for mass media, by doing so, Nica showed
the equality between men and women to be treated the same without knowing their sexes. Suwen chose to leave them away, letting her body and soul
untouchable from the hands of men.