Critical Approaches Character Review of Related Theories

15 warmth, and sleep. A person who feels hungry will be motivated to eat not to sleep. This is a way to fulfill that need. People will ignore all other needs before the physiological needs have been satisfied pp. 39-43. 2 Safety needs Safety needs are the second level of the hierarchy of needs. After the physiological needs have been fulfilled, a sense of security will emerge. For example, safety needs are protections from security, order, law, stability, freedom from fear, terrorism, a disease, anxiety, danger, violence, and natural disasters. The safety needs are different from physiological needs because these needs cannot be totally fulfilled. According to Maslow, people who are not safe will be acting and behaving like children who are not safe. They will be acting and behaving as always in a threatened pp.43-48. 3 Belonging and love needs Belonging and love needs are the third level of the hierarchy of needs. After physiological needs and safety needs have been fulfilled, a sense of belonging and love needs will emerge. Example of belonging and love needs are friendship, intimacy, affection and love, family, friends, and romantic relationships. Someone who has belonging and love needs love since a child, he will not feel panic when refused of love. He will have confidence to be accepted pp. 48-50. 4 Esteem needs Esteem needs are the fourth level of the hierarchy of needs. After physiological needs, safety needs and belonging and love needs have been 16 fulfilled, a sense of esteem needs will emerge. These needs have two aspects, the first aspect is the desire of power, achievement, sufficiency, preeminence, ability, and freedom. The second aspect is that what people have, is called desire of having a good name or prestige, status, fame and glory, domination, recognition, dignity, and appreciation. The fulfillment of esteem needs bring the feeling of believe in one. The obstacles of fulfillment these needs are inferiority and weakness pp. 50-51. 5 Self-actualization needs Self-actualization needs are the fifth level of hierarchy of needs. Though all needs are fulfilled, people often feel growth a sense of dissatisfied and new nervousness immediately. The example of self-actualization needs are realizing personal potential, self-fulfillment, seeking personal growth, and peak experiences p. 52. Those five levels of hierarchy of needs help to dig out Mameha’s motivation in building her interpersonal relationship with Sayuri in Memoirs of a Geisha.

5. Definition of an Interpersonal Relationship

Everybody has her own relationship with others. Beebe et al 1996 define an interpersonal relationship as ‘’an ongoing connection we make with another person that we carry in our minds and metaphorically, in our hearts, whether the other person is present or not’’ p. 206. It means that the connection between participants creates an interpersonal relationship that goes into thoughts and hearts. PLAGIAT MERUPAKAN TINDAKAN TIDAK TERPUJI