3.3.1 The family name which is given hereditaryly the family
name which is obtained by descendant
The family name which is given hereditaryly is the family name which is obtained from hisher parent paternal as according to the kinship
system which is Patrilineal. In the wedding system in Mandailing is not agreed marrying in one family name exogamy, it means, that the family name A
may only marry with family name B, C and so on. If a husband has family name A and his wife has family name B so their children should obtain family
name A their father’s family name. If a father has family name B, so his sonsgeneration have to have their father’s family name, they may not take
their mother’s family name.
3.3.2 The family name which is given by intertribal marriage
The family name which is given when occured intertribal marriage where is one of them the prospective wife or the prospective husband does
not have family name. In giving family name should be determined beforehand, from which the family name will be taken. The family name that
will be given must be agreed by the family which has the family name.
That family name will be given officially by the owner family name, that means,
the family which has family name will receive that person officially becomes their family member. On other hand, the receiver of family name must
appreciate and keep the reputation of hisher new family.
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In this giving family name, the giver of family name and the family name that will be given, it is depend on who will receive the family name:
a If the receiver of family name is a prospective wife, so the family name
which is given is mother’s family name from the prospective husband or the mother’s family name from the father in law candidate. So the giver of
family name is mother’s family of prospective husband or mother’s family of father in law candidate. In other word, Mora from the prospective
husband. b
If the receiver of family name is a prospective husband, so the family name which is be given is husband’s family name from the father in law
candidate’s sister or family name from sister’s husband of father in law. In other words, Anak Boru from prosfective wife.
3.3.3 The giving family name based on dedication and service
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