The Application of Off Record
46 Elizabeth Gilbert was seeking agreement with Richard. She said, “But what about
all those beautiful things to see in India? Isn’t it kind of a pity to travel halfway around the world just to stay in the little Ashram the whole time?
” p. 227 as regards staying in the Ashram for the whole time was not a good idea for her.
Secondly, the little social distance between Elizabeth Gilbert and Felipe also made Felipe use Bald-on Record and Positive Politeness strategies in his
utterances. Both of them had a very close relationship and became a couple at last. Moreover, Felipe and Elizabeth Gilbert had the same cultural background. He was
a Westerner, too. He liked being direct and satisfying Eli zabeth Gilbert’s positive
face when he talked to her. For example, he gave a compliment to her when she was not confident with herself. He said, “You’re young and beautiful, darling” p.
357. He employed Positive Politeness in order to satisfy her positive face. Thirdly, Elizabeth Gilbert was close to Ketut Liyer. She often visited him
and discussed life with him when she was in Bali. The intimacy between them made both of them often apply Positive Politeness when talking to each other. For
instance, Ketut Liyer noticed Elizabeth Gilbert’s need about having a balanced
life. He said, “Good for you to keep practice both ways of meditation—Indian and Balinese p. 320.
” Lastly, the relationship between Elizabeth Gilbert and Wayan Nuriyasih
was close enough. They had high solidarity since they knew they were at the same age around thirties. Their marital status was the same; both of them were
divorced. Moreover, Wayan Nuriyasih considered Elizabeth Gilbert as her sister after being helped to purchase a new house. These indicated that the social
47 distance between them was little. It made them often apply Positive Politeness.
The example of showing solidarity by Wayan Nuriyasih could be seen in the following utterances.
“Liz—why do you never try to look sexy, like Armenia? You such a pretty girl you have good capital of nice face, nice body, nice smile. But always
you wear this same broken T- shirt, same broken jeans. Don’t you want to
be sexy, like her? ” p. 352