The Aspects of Self-Actualization

8 | L e n i I r m a w a t i become. It is a matter of becoming the most complete because they become themselves truly.

c. The Aspects of Self-Actualization

1 More Efficient Perception of Reality Self-actualized persons perceive reality more effectively than most people do and have more comfortable relations with it That is, they live close to reality and to nature, can judge others accurately, and can tolerate ambiguity or uncertainty more easily than most people can Maslow in Zimbardo, 1979: 488. In other words, they can accept reality although it is not they might want or need it to be. They can easily fake and genuine in others, not only people but also many other areas of life, including art, music, science, politics and philosophy. They also have greater tolerance of ambiguity. 2 Acceptance of Self, Others and Nature Maslow in Zimbardo, 1979: 488, states that “they can accept themselves and their various characteristics with little feeling of guilt or anxiety and, at the same time, can ready accept others”. In other words, they can accept themselves the way they are, others and nature. They also can accept their own short comings, frailties and weakness without anxiety and shame. 3 Spontaneity, Simplicity and Nature In Hjelle and Ziegler 1992: 474, Maslow states that “the behavior of self actualizing people is marked by spontaneity and simplicity, by an absence of artificially or straining for effect”. In other words, their behavior is done naturally. They also do not hope the effect of their behavior. 4 Problem- Centered “They were problem centered, meaning they treated life‟s difficulties as problems demanding solutions, not as personal troubles to be railed at or surrendered to” Maslow in Boeree 9 | L e n i I r m a w a t i www.ship.edu.com In other words, they always search solution oftheir problems. They also do not insult their problems. 5 Detachment the Need for Privacy Maslow states that self- actualized persons have a quality of detachment althought they feel enjoy of other frienship but they need for privacy. They were confertable being alone with out felling lonely Feist, 1985:388. They have a need for privacy and solitude at times and are capable of looking at life from adechated, objective point of view. 6 Autonomy Independence of Culture and Enviorenment Maslow that self- actualized people have ability to be independent of culture and environment. They depend on themselves for growth, self- actualizes have self-confidence, show they are nunperturbed and serenity not enjoy by those who life for the approval of others Feist, 1985:389. Sself- actualized self free to act independently or their physicall and social environment. This autonomy enables them to rely in their own potentialities and talent resourches for growth and development. 7 Social Interest Maslow says that self- actualized people have social interest and affection for all humanity. They will give more simpathy to others rather then egoism this nurtuting attitude is evidenced by a feeling of compassion, simpathy, and affection for all humanity Hjelle and Ziegler, 1992:477. It shows that the a attitude of self- actualized people show affection, deep feeling for humanity. They will give have to human beings with out differentiate between them. Social interest allows them to have special feeling of emphaty for healty people. They also have tender feeling for children and are easily touched by them. This is accompanied by a strong ethics. Human beings that have high social interest also have good attitude and behavior. 10 | L e n i I r m a w a t i 8 Creativeness Maslow says that self- actualized people are creative in the world. Maslow shows that they should be creative in the world. Maslow shows that they should be creative in their own way Feist, 1985:393. They do not depende on other people. They should not be writer and printer to be creative, but their creativity is in their own fresh job wheter they are teacher docters, layer, etc Feist, 1985:393. This skin of self- actualization creativity appears in evryday life. It can be send as an expression of a personality that is perspective, inovative, and refresh hingly simple.

d. The Motivation of Self-Actualization