Dawan’s Mother Gender Schema as a Result of External Factor
30 live independently in the city. In addition, Noi describes the city as a place that
creates tough life which is not the same as what is in people‟s imagination.
“That is true,” Ghan confirmed. “There is no sense in a young girl going off into the City alone.” p. 35.
To suppport her wife, Ghan states the same statement about how a girl should not leave the village to live alone in the city. Noi and Ghan has the same
opinion about the city because for them, that place is not appropriate for a girl to live alone. It will be different if the one who lives alone in the City is a boy. There
will be more supports for him because boys are trusted and know how to manage themselves and feed themselves. By the time a girl has a chance to live in the city,
there will be more contradictory opinions towards it rather than pro opinions. “But that‟s exactly the point,” Noi broke in sharply. “She doesn‟t have to
go to the City, does she? She can go to school here.” p. 35.
From the statement above, the writer finds that Noi creates her own point of view about how a girl should get education. Girls may get more education, yet
they are not expected to do many things for the society by earning the knowledge from school. Noi keeps insisting that there is no reason for a girl to study in the
city because they can still learn in the village. Moreover, the city is seen as a dangerous place for her because she has been through tough life in there. For her,
it will be better for a girl to live in the village and keep doing her fate to cook and raise the baby, rather than going through tough life in the city which is full of
unfairness and injustice for poor people like villagers. PLAGIAT MERUPAKAN TINDAKAN TIDAK TERPUJI
31 “You see what happens when you try to have your own way, Dawan? In
the long run, it‟s not worth it to fight with boys. You‟ve only got a cut leg now, but next time it may not be your own brother you‟re fighting with,
and you may be hurt even more. Believe me, it‟s painful in this world to get in the way of men.” p.87.
Noi is in the market to help Dawan when Dawan‟s leg gets hurt. It is injured because Kwai is very angry to her and pushes her away. Noi seems to be
angry to Dawan because Dawan still struggles to get support to talk to her father, while her own brother is very angry to her. The gender schema that can be found
in Noi‟s statement is that girls should not fight the boys because girls are weak and have no power. Girls should just obey and accept what the boys say. Once
girls try to resist boys, they should accept the consequences of getting hurt. Therefore, many girls gives up their chance if it means they have to counter boys.