Leadership in the Family

said social emergency can be prohibited. Currently, the prohibition of polygamy seems to be a historical certainty since humanitarian awareness, in which Islam has a role in initiating, has become stronger. The cultural background of polygamy among others is the view that women are subordinate to men. In developed culture this view no longer exists. That is the reason why although there are proponents of polygamy, the process of disallowing the institution remains on going. This process is undoubtedly inseparable to the intrinsic values of developed culture which views violence against women not only in the form of physical violence, but also psychological and sexual as well. Nowadays people asses polygamy as a form of psychological violence towards the wife woman. This value is not something completely new in Islam. This can be seen from eradication of violence against women agendas at the time of the Prophet which are found in al-Qur’an as follows: 1 female infanticide by burying them alive at-Takwir, 81:8-9; 2 beating an- Nisa’, 4:30; 3 divorcing a wife due to old age al-Mujadilah, 58:2; 4 evicting the wife from home at-Thalaq, 65:1; 5 causing suffering and misery at-Thalaq, 65:6; 6 complicating the life of women al- Baqarah, 2:236.

4.10 Conclusion

This writing attempts to elaborate on the implementation of Qur’anic teachings in marriage ethics by analysing human nature. This effort is line with al-A’la, 87:3 which affirms that in the creation of man, God bestowed human nature form, existence, and potential, then provided guidance. This affirmation, on the one hand, shows that for its own good man must actualize his human nature in line to God’s guidance. On the other hand, the affirmation also means that the formulation of the teachings of al-Qur’an must be in line with human nature so that it can be executed well. It is already known that al-Qur’an was revealed as a guide al-Baqarah, 2:2 and 185. Its elaboration with the pattern above is expected to have fulfilled the second intention of the affirmation found in al-A’la, 87:3.

4.11 Reference

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