Spiritual Figure’s Independence

the good of the society or community is becoming neglected more and more. Trull and Carter mentioned three dangers of present time faced by professionals, that is becoming too dependent on oneself, too much orientation towards success, and too confident of self-worth 2004:33. Spiritual figures are not free from such temptations. The root of many conflict and difficulty in cooperating among fellow priests lies on those three things. Being too focused on strength, success, and self- worth, a number of priests view their colleagues not as partners but as competitors. Some priests also make the amount of fee received from the parish as a sign of their success. Others boast the large amount of invitation to preach out of their parishes as proof of their gaining popularity. This kind of focus on one’s own success present a bad influence devastating to the religious community. These spiritual figures consider the religious community as mere consumers or objects of exploitation. Their commitment to the community’s religious faith is no longer clear, let alone their spirit to sacrifice for the sake of the community. It is unclear what these religious figures ‘profess’ to as a basis for executing their job. Trull and Carter 2004:40 view the diminishing sense of calling by Allah as an essential factor in relegating the professionalism level of priests into mere discourse for self-success. Prospective students of theology are sometimes laughed at when claiming to have enrolled to school of theology with reason of ‘God’s calling’. Perhaps the people mocking only do so to convince the prospective student not to make that sort of substantial claim too easily. But this experience of being mocked, to some, becomes a sort of trauma which would make them no longer convinced of God’s calling. Since the calling is no longer taken into consideration, they must seek other motivation, both for their study or future job. Ambiguity in spiritual and moral motivation renders spiritual figures lacking true visions. Hence, they find it difficult to devise service missions oriented toward the good of the serviced community. The result is clear that these spiritual figures become prone to various types of personal crises, both spiritual, moral, and cultural. In turn, they will also tend to spread their personal crises to the community they serve.

2.5 Conclusion

Spiritual figures are essentially professionals in the understanding that they possess competence, independence, and moral-spiritual commitment. In practice, professionalism of spiritual figures is often eroded due to inadequately updated competence, independence sacrificed for personal or group interests, and weak moral-spiritual commitment. Thus, in order to keep their professionalism, a spiritual figure must always be replenished in those three aspects. A professional spiritual figure will foster their community in attaining moral and spiritual wellbeing, so heshe is able to participate in developing a creative, tolerant, and dignified society.

2.6 Reference

Camenisch, Paul F. 1991. ‘Clergy ethics and the professional ethics model’ in Wind, James P. et al., Clergy Ethics in A Changing Society: Mapping the Terrain. Chicago: The Park Ridge CenterWJKP. Trull, Joe E. dan Carter, James E. 2004. Ministrial Ethics: Moral Formation for Church Leaders. Grand Rapids: Baker Academic. Wiest, Walter E. dan Smith, Elwyn. 1990. Ethics in Ministry: A Guide for the Professional. Minneapolis: Fortress Press. 3 FOSTERING FAMILY LIFE IN THE TEACHING OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH Martino Sardi

3.1 Introduction

Fostering family life in the teaching of the Catholic Church is the theme that we will uncover together in this opportunity. How is it that our respective families become a joyful one which truly brings joy both to its members and to all the people we meet? In this opportunity, we will discuss three important matters pertaining to our main theme, “Fostering Family Life in the Teaching of the Catholic Church. Firstly, we will focus on marriage vow, secondly, marriage vow in the challenges of time, thirdly fostering a true Christian family by reflecting on the holy family of Nazareth. This issue is very real in this current age and it begs special attention and profound study. May our family remain faithful and always joyful.

3.2 Wedding Vow

I remember my friend’s marriage several years ago in a very simple old church. In that holy matrimony, Pietro and Anita respectively