Expression of Annoyance or Disapproval Complaining Strategy

xx The conversat ion t akes place in a hospit al. The participant s are Carrie and Harry; Charlot t e’s husband. They are friends and t hey know each ot her. Charlot t e has just given birt h t o her child. Carrie com es and congrat ulat es t hem. When Carrie is about t o go, Harry says som et hing t o her. He says t hat Big asked him t o ask Carrie t o call Big. Carrie is am azed. She ut t ers a com plaint t o him . She st ill feels m ad at Big for w hat he did; cancelling t he w edding. In t his exam ple, t he hint st rat egy is used. In t his st rat egy, t he speaker m ay or m ay not m ent ion t he com plainable direct ly t o t he hearer. Carrie ut t ers a com plaint because she st ill feels m ad at Big for cancelling t heir wedding. She expresses his dislike using No Explicit Reproach strategy or Hint strategy. She does not direct ly say t hat w hat Big has request ed t o her t hrough Harry is bad. She only expresses her disappoint m ent and indicat es t hat she is act ually st ill m ad at Big. This st rat egy can be used t o prepare for m ore forceful st rat egies.

2. Expression of Annoyance or Disapproval Complaining Strategy

M IRANDA : How oft en do you guys have sex? CHARLOTTE : M iranda please. M IRANDA : What ? M IRANDA : She’s t hree, she doesn’t know w hat it m eans. I’m fort y- one and I st ill don’t know w hat it m eans. CHARLOTTE : I know , but she’s repeat ing everyt hing. SAM ANTHA : If I knew the girl talk w as going to be on “lock dow n, I w ouldn’t have flown tw o thousand miles . CHARLOTTE : No, w e can t alk, let ’s just not use t hat w ord. M IRANDA : Fine. How oft en do you guys... xxi CARRIE :... “ Color” ? CHARLOTTE : Thank-you. The conversat ion t akes place in a coffee shop. The part icipant s are M iranda, Charlot t e, Sam ant ha, and Carrie. They have t heir breakfast . Lily, Charlot t e’s daught er is w it h t hem coloring a book. M iranda asks a quest ion t o her friends about how oft en t hey have sex. Charlot t e w ho is afraid of her lit t le daught er’s developm ent asks M iranda t o avoid say t he w ord “ sex” . Hearing Charlot t e’s request t o M iranda, Sam ant ha feels annoyed. She com plains t o her. Charlot t e get s shocked w hen she hears M iranda says t he w ord “ sex” in front of her daught er. She asks M iranda t o avoid using t he w ord. Sam ant ha feels annoyed and com plains using Annoying strategy of complaining. In t his st rat egy she does not say t hat Charlot t e is guilt y for prohibit ing t hem t o discuss about t heir sex life. But she says her disappoint m ent t ow ards Charlot t e’s request . This st rat egy is m ore direct t han t he previous. 3. Accusation Complaining Strategy CARRIE : Right, and...well, Big and I decided to get married. SAMANTHA : Really? CARRIE : Yes. SAMANTHA : That’s great. CARRIE : You sounded more excited about the Botox. SAMANTHA : Well, honey I am excited for you but you know me... I don’t really believe in marriage....Botox on the other hand That works every time. SAMANTHA : Honey, I’ve got to go. We can catch up when I’m in town next week. xxii The conversat ion occurs in t he phone. The part icipant s are Carrie and Sam ant ha. Sam ant ha is in her office w hile Carrie is in a bout ique. Carrie calls Sam ant ha and t ells her t hat she w ill be m arried. Samant ha is shocked w it h t he new s. She responds it plainly. Carrie t hen com plains t o her. The t hird exam ple show s t he Accusation strategy. Carrie ut t ers a com plaint t hat Sam ant ha does not give her any excit em ent at all at her m arriage plan. This kind of st rat egy is m ore powerful t han t he previous st rat egy. From t he exam ples above, it can be seen t hat t here are m any different com plaining act s found in t he dialogue of t he film . Those com plaining act s are classified int o som e kinds of st rat egies. Besides, t he analysis of com plaining act s relat es m uch w it h responses of t he hearers w hich have cert ain t ypes and t he reasons. Therefore, t he researcher is int erest ed t o analyze t he com plaining responses used by t he charact ers in t he dialogue of t he film ent it led “ Sex and t he Cit y” . Therefore, t he t it le of t his research is AN ANALYSIS OF COM PLAINING RESPONSES USED BY THE CHARACTERS IN THE FILM ENTITLED SEX AND THE CITY A Socio- Pragmatics Approach

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