The Types of Interruption in Mixed-Sex Conversations in
although the interrupter comes to grab the floor. An example below shows the occurrence of an overlap.
Eleanor : I had no idea you were bringing a date. How delightful. Lily
: Oh, this is Rufus Humphrey. Rufus
: Oh, its not a date.
20600:18:53-00:18:59 In that scene, Lily comes to Eleanor’s party with Rufus as her partner. Eleanor
thinks that Rufus is Lily’s new dating partner. As a matter of fact, Lily and Rufus are
only friends. Then, Rufus and Lily perform an overlap to clarify their relationship. In Lily’s turn, she wants to introduce her friend named Rufus Humphrey. At the same
time, Rufus tries to explain that they are not dating in his turn. However, their explanation comes at the same time which causes an overlap.
An overlap, in this case, occurs when Lily and Rufus are trying to clarify the misunderstanding at the same time. At that time, Lily is the one who should take the
turn, but Rufus immediately grabs Lily’s floor at the same time. This occurrence of
interruption is regarded as an overlap because Lily and Rufus talk at the same time and grab one ano
ther’s turn of speaking. Another example of an overlap is also shown as follows.
Dan : Will you excuse me? I just saw the last person I ever expected to
see. Serena
: Yeah. How can I say no to that? Dan
: Im sorry.
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The conversation above occurs between Dan and Serena. Dan unexpectedly meets Vannesa when he is dating with Serena at a party. Vannesa, who has a feeling
for Dan, is shocked and he immediately walks away from Dan. Then, Dan tries to approach Vannesa. However, he gets confused and he does not know how to cut the
conversation because he is in the middle of the talk to Serena. In that conversation, Dan says an excuse to leave Serena for a while. An interruption occurs when Serena
replies Dan. In the interruption, Dan is in a hurry to approach Vannesa while he has to make an appropriate excuse to his girlfriend. Therefore, Dan performs interruption
to stop the conversation. The type of interruption which occurs in the conversation is regarded as an
overlap. It is an overlap because Serena finishes her utterance when Dan starts to interrupt her. In addition, this overlap occurs in a simultaneous speech. This means
that an overlap occurs when both Serena and Dan are talking at the same time. Another example of an overlap also occurs in the conversation between Dan
and Vannesa as shown below. Dan
: I-I merely refrained from sharing the truth, which would have sounded a lot more like a lie than what I told you.
Vannesa : Humphrey.
23600:30:14-00:30:19 In the conversation above, Dan tries to explain about the relationship between
him and Serena. He wants to tell Vannesa that he has a new girlfriend recently. However, Dan feels difficult to explain the relationship because Vannesa still has a
feeling for him. Therefore, Vannesa cuts Dan’s explanation by saying his last name
which is Humphrey. In the example above, Vannesa wants Dan to stop the explanation because she does not want to hear any explanation anymore. However,
Dan has finished his utterance when Vannesa starts to interrupt him. In this case, the type of interruption is regarded as an overlap.
In addition, an overlap also occurs between Nate and Anne. The example is shown below.
Nate : I mean, I guess he thought itd be easier on everyone if I took the
hit, but they were his. Anne
: I dont understand. Nate
: No. He promised me hed flush the coke, then I caught
him buying more. 32700:19:53-00:20:03
In the conversation above, Nate discuss with her mother about his father ’s
problem. Nate explains that his father is the one who buys the drugs not himself. However, his father puts the blame to Nate and he makes Nate to be the person who
uses the drugs. In that conversation, Anne does not believe Nate’s explanation by
u ttering, “I don’t understand”. However, Nate tries to cuts Anne’s utterance because
he has not finished the explanation yet. This type of interruption is classified as an overlap because Anne still finishes her utterance when Nate starts to interrupt her.
c. Butting-in Interruption
The third type of interruption occurs in the mixed-sex conversations in the TV series is a butting-in interruption. This type is only found twice in the selected
episodes of the TV series and appears as the lowest rank among the types of interruption. This type is claimed as unsuccessful interruption which becomes the
reason why this function is rarely used by men and women in mixed-sex conversations. A Butting-in interruption occurs when an interrupter cuts the current
speaker ’s turn of the talk but the interruptee takes back his or her turn. It means that
the interrupter fails to grab the interruptee’s floor. An example of this type is described below.
Alison : Look, I have made mistakes, and I know that, but if shes in your
life, youre never gonna get over her. Rufus
: Ali son.
Alison :
This is it, Rufus, okay? if
you wanna make this work, then you have to make a choice. 55900:31:13-00:31:23
The conversation above occurs between Alison and Rufus. Alison is Rufu s’
wife and Lily is Rufus’ ex-girlfriend. Alison finds a fact that Rufus still has a feeling
for his ex-girlfriend. Alison wants to hear a clear explanation from his husband. Then, she asks Rufus to choose between her and Lily. However, Rufus tries to stop
the discussion and he cuts Alison’s utterance by calling Alison’s name but he fails to
do so. However, Alison does not want to stop the discussion and she does not want to lose her turn of speaking. She keeps trying to force Rufus choose between her and
Lily by saying a clear statement, “This is it, Rufus, okay?” and she grabs back her turn from Rufus.
This occurrence of interruption refers to a butting-in interruption because Alison succeeds to grab back her turn of the talk.
At first, Rufus tries to cut Alison’s turn, but Alison immediately grabs back her turn. It means that Rufus fails to perform
interruption. Another example of this type is also shown below. Lily
: Yeah, it made me feel a little Rufus
: nostal gic?
Lily :
Nauseous. 29600:32:44-00:32:46
In the example above, Lily and Rufus are discussing a sudden kissing which just happens between them. In that conversation, Lily wants to say her opinion about
the kissing. However, Rufus tries to interrupt Lily to help her finishing the utterance. In the interruption, Rufus fails in providing the word which makes him interrupted
back by Lily. In this case, the type of interruption is regarded as a butting-in interruption
since Lily grabs back her floor after Rufus interrupts her. It means that Rufus, as the interrupter, fails to do the interruption.
d. Silent Interruption
The fourth type of interruption which is found in the mixed-sex conversations in the TV series is a silent interruption. In this type, the utterance of the current
speaker has not yet completed but he or she makes a stop in a sudden. This type is named as a silent interruption because there is a
silent pause in the speaker’s utterance. There is no simultaneous speech between the speakers in this type since
the interruption comes after a speaker stops his or her utterance in the middle of the talk. An example of a silent interruption is described as follows.
Dan : I know it may not compare to, uh, a suite at The Ritz in Paris or a
chalet in Aspen, and it might be a fire hazard, but Serena :
but its perfect.
37700:34:04-00:34:13 Dan and Serena want
to make a date. They choose Dan’s house to be the place rather than other expensive places. The conversation above occurs when Dan
shows his decorated room to Serena. Dan says that his room is not like a suite room
at The Ritz hotel in Paris or a chalet in Aspen. However, Dan intentionally does not complete his explanation. He gives a chance to Serena to express her opinion about
Dan’s room decoration. Therefore, Dan makes a silent pause in the middle of the talk. This silence is used by Serena to perform interruption.
The type of interruption which occurs in the conversation above is regarded as a silent interruption. This means that interruption occurs when Dan performs a silent
pause. This silent pause is intentionally performed by Dan. The pause is used by Serena as a chance to take the floor. Another example of a silent interruption is
shown below. Jenny
: Yeah, its about my mom. You know, cause she had this perfume that she always wore. And it was rose and
Dan :
Sandalwood. 46900:19:34-00:19:39
Lily tells that she has a horse named Rosewood. Jenny replies that she also knows the name. It is his father
’s song made for her mother when they were young. Jenny sings few lines of the song for Lily, but she forgets the last line. Then, Dan helps her to
finish the line by saying “Sandalwood”.
In the conversation above, Jenny makes a silent pause because she does not remember the line completely. Therefore, Dan comes to makes his turn to help Jenny
finishing the line. In this case, a silent interruption occurs when Jenny makes a silent pause for a second. Then, the pause is used by Dan to perform interruption.
Another example of a silent interruption which also occurs in the conversation between Lily and Rufus is described as follows.
Rufus : But, Lily these past few weeks have been
Lily :
Have been what? you cant even say it, can you?
48900:25:42-00:25:50 Rufus and Lily are discussing their relationship in the past few weeks. Lily
wants to know the clarity of their relationship. In that conversation, Rufus performs a silent pause because he cannot describe his feeling towards Lily. Then, Lily grabs
Ruf us’ turn of the talk to break the silence. Lily assumes that Rufus cannot express
his feeling because he still has a feeling towards her. However, the fact that he is a married man forces him to make a silence when Lily asks about their relationship.
That type of interruption is regarded as a silent interruption because Rufus does not finish his utterance and he makes a silent pause in the middle of the talk.
Therefore, this silence is used as an opport unity by Lily to grab Rufus’ turn of the
talk.