Fearing to Convey His Feeling
44 “She’s not dead. She’s alive. She’s alive somewhere. She’s in the woods.
Alaska is hiding in the woods and she’s not dead, she’s just hiding. She’s just playing a trick on us. This is just an Alaska Young Extraordinaire. It’s
Alaska being Alaska, funny and playful and not knowing when or how to put on the brakes” p. 168
“And I just stood there, looking at the scene, thinking about her not dead, and I felt a hand on my shoulder and turned around to see the Eagle, and I
said, “I think she’s playing a dumb prank” p. 169 That quotations show that Miles is unconvinced for the news. He expects that
Alaska plays her role who likes playing riddle. Miles always builds his own strong perspective to create his strong belief. According to Coppersmith 1976, he is
also in stage of exploring a teenager period who normally believes that their opinion is right ones. He does not want to believe that news without any evidence
from the appropriate authority. That conflict is flare up in his heart. Indeed as a loner, he prefers to be alone when he faces a conflict.
“I’m just sad I never told her I loved her. I just don’t understand why” p. 190.
“I guess, but I wouldn’t bemoan the fact I never told her I loved her. I don’t love her. She’s an idiot” p. 190
His reflective characteristic brings him to his regret. He thinks that Alaska’s
accident will not happen if he stops her to drive alone while being drunk the night before Alaska’s accident. Besides, his confusion also as a primary factor that
makes an intrapersonal conflict. To repeat about Iyer ’s 2014 theory about
intrapersonal conflict, intrapersonal conflict happens with own self and own mind. Based on those quotations above, Miles is experiencing the third intrapersonal
conflict, avoidance – avoidance conflict, where an individual faces two
unpleasantly goals. On the one hand, he has to dispose his feeling to Alaska, PLAGIAT MERUPAKAN TINDAKAN TIDAK TERPUJI
45 however; he feels that Alaska also needs him. On the other hand, he has difficulty
to accept her death because he believes that her death is his fault. From the explanations, the writer concludes that Miles has two
unpleasantly goals which lead to his regret and dread. If Miles has no bravery to convey his real feeling to
Alaska, Alaska will not ever know how Miles’ feeling. Even more, Alaska will not die if Miles accompanies her in the worst situation.
Moreover, his second intrapersonal conflict encourages the third intrapersonal conflict. Afterward, his choices certainly bring him in two sides of losing Alaska.
First, he losses the opportunity to reveal his feeling. Second he loses Alaska forever.
To manage his conflicts, he chooses to avoid the conflicts. Lussier 2013 states that avoidant style is neglecting passively to solve the conflict. Miles tries to
neglect every conflict that he has. However, neglecting conflict will make the situation gets worse. Miles is not only an easy-going person, but also a loner. He
just does not know what he should do to make the situation better. Miles just has one thing that is the regret for his choices.