which then make individual to be more civilized. Civilization is founded on relations between larger groups of individuals Freud 1930:23. Large individual group
connected in relation and build civilization develops into society. Stockard, as quoted by Doda 2005:3 described society generally as a world with all its structures,
institutions, organizations, etc. and specifically to a group of people who live within some types of bounded territory and who share a common way of life.
On the society, individual needs to act, react and interact in order to struggle his life. It is part of an effort to live among the society. It is presumed that the ultimate
source of the effort factor of action process is derived from the individual, and correspondingly that in some sense all gratification and deprivation have an organic
significance Parsons 2005:2. Every individual has its own significance that instinctively drove by ego.
The community of one individual are smaller number of society. It has the same function and structure. It also has the same bound with an emotional ties that unite each
member of the community to have the sense of belonging. This sense will create a higher toleration to live side by side. A higher toleration will create a better
environment so that anxiety has a little chance to be occurred.
2.2.3 Individual Existence on the Society
Each individual needs to make a progress to support his life on the society. There are many factors caused this progress. One obvious insight is that the life drive pushes
personal progress. Its needs for harmony and balance within the nervous system. It creates incentive to do the things deemed acceptable as a society. The unbalance
nervous system may cause pathological and affect mind’s health. There do indeed exist different pathological and healthy mind where the boundary between ego and object is
lost, blurred, or distorted. There is a necessary and an unavoidable antagonism between the demands of instinct and the restrictions that civilizes society put upon them. It is
the protection of one individual against the often violent indifference of nature to the needs and against the aggression and violence within individual that threaten
continually to undermine human relations Rennison 2001:53. The basic human instincts, if followed through without restriction, would
undermine civilization. In fact, some of human instincts should be followed in order to protect the individual’s existence on the society. Some individuals are not be fulfilled
in some instinct and caused to frustration. Frustrations are especially unendurable to the called neurotics among people Freud 1929:23. These individuals manufacture
substitute-gratifications for themselves in their symptoms, which, however, are either painful in themselves or become the cause of suffering owing to the difficulties they
create with the person’s environment and society at large Freud 1929:23. The difficulties suffer by those individuals damage the relationship with the environment
and the society at large. The large society at a certain place creates its own culture. Culture is not content
with such limited ties as these; seen that it endeavors to bind the members of the community to one another by libidinal ties, that it makes use of every means and
favours every avenue by which powerful identifications can be created among individuals, and that it exacts a heavy toll of aim-inhibited libido in order to strengthen
