Women’s Self Development

22 program people mindset to make them believe what is beautiful and what is not. As stated by Gamble 2006:95 that women’s perspective of ideal body in the 1990s should be slim and youthful, as personified by a model named Kate Moss.

2.3.4 Women’s Self Development

Beauty contest that is held every year has one familiar slogan of ideal body that women should have 3Bs, which stands for Brain, Beauty and Behavior. When women have those characteristic, they can be defined as women perfect. It is one of the ways to explore women abilities as requirements for women to get the true beauty, as cited from http:ezinearticles.com?A-Beauty-Pageant-As-One-of- the-Ways-to-Explore-Womens-Abilitiesid=3140351 . Besides, they need to develop their image to be free from men’s narrow-mindedness. The following are the brief explanation of the 3Bs: 1. Brain The first B is brain. It is related to the level of human intelligence. As cited from The First Sex 1999, a philosopher George Santayana wrote that the intelligence is the quickness in seeing things. Related to 3Bs, brain here means that a women should have good intelligence and has a broad knowledge http:ezinearticles.com?A-Beauty-Pageant-As-One-of-the- Ways-to-Explore-Womens-Abilitiesid=3140351 . Therefore, being a woman is not about how to gain physical beauty solely, but also how they can enrich their knowledge and abilities that are used for fellow being. In addition, Fisher 1999:57 argued that women can be clever, broad minded, intuitive, and many other things. Woman should be smart, 23 and have abilities to express their mind, idea, and opinion wisely to reflect their high quality of intelligence. Because it will help them to be free from men’s underestimation. 2 Beauty The word “beauty” in this 3Bs here is defined as attractive physical appearance to support behavior. Women are especially demanded to pay attention to their appearance, because it will give first impression to other people. It is inevitable to be an important term of most of them. Beauty is only to complete and support the betters, behavior and brain, not as the main factor to determine someone perfect or not. Therefore, it is better for them to maintain their physical appearance. Beauty is a quality possessed by an object or a person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the senses. It is a subjective experience in each person that could lead to powerful feelings of attraction and emotional well being. However, there is not standard measurement in judging whether a woman is beautiful or not. as sited from http:ezinearticles.com?The-Outer-Glow-From-an-Inner- Beautyid=17491440. 3 Behavior The last B is behavior. It is related to the personal attitude in society. Behavior means that a woman should have good personality and attitude and it can be seen by the way she behaves and treats other. It is different from beauty. It is considered as outer beauty, then behavior as the inner 24 one. Because it is disposed to be judge in the way of someone physical appearance, while behavior cannot be seen directly, but it can be felt by the way someone acts, says, and treats to other, as cited from http:ezinearticles.com?A-Beauty-Pageant-As-One-of-the-Ways-to- Explore-Womens-Abilitiesid=3140351 . According to Evita 1978:68 as cited by Rostamailis, there are three factors that can influence someone behavior. They are characters, education, and social relationship. If they are in one unity, someone can have good personality and behavior. Therefore, it is better to have them, because attractive physical appearance solely will be useless. Besides, Rostamailis 2005:91 said that behavior is more valuable rather than physical beauty, because it could be vanished as long as someone getting older. Whereas, behavior is not replaceable, even if someone is not beautiful any longer. Again, Rostamailis argued that someone appeal is not relay on good looking and ideal body, but people will be more interested in someone clean, neat, nice, and having good attitude. Therefore, to be a fascinating woman, good behavior is needed as the main factor and completed with other self development, like intelligence and appearance, 2005:90. 3. Behavior The last B is behavior. It is related to the personal attitude in society. Behavior means that a woman should have good personality and attitude. 25 It can be seen by the way she behaves and treats others. It is deferent from beauty. It is considered as outer beauty, then behavior as the inner one. Because it is disposed to be judged in the way of someone physical appearance, while behavior cannot be seen directly, but it can be felt by the way someone acts, says and treats to others, as cited from http:ezinearticles.com?The-Outer-Glow-From-an-Inner- Beautyid=1749144 . According to Evita 1978:68 as cited byRostamailis, there are three factors that can influence someone behavior. They are characters, education and social relationship. If they are in one unity, someone can have good personality and behavior. Therefore, it is better because attractive physical appearance solely will be useless. Besides, Rostamailis 2005:91 said that behavior is more valuable rather than physical beauty, because it could be vanished as long as someone getting older. Whereas, behavior is not replaceable, even if someone is not beautiful any longer. Again, she argued that someone appeal is not relay on good looking and ideal body, but people will be more interested in someone clean, neat, nice and having good attitude. Therefore, to be a fascinating woman, good behavior is needed as the main factor and complete with other self development, like intelligence and appearance, 2005:90

2.3.5 The True Beauty