Problem Formulation Objectives of the Study
According norm in Moslem society, if a girl wants to marry, there should be permission from her father. A father may marry off her daughter with a man
even she does not love at all. Nurhayati,2012:XIV. It can be seen in Firdaus life. Firdaus as a girl in Egypt, which her
father has died, then she is under controlled by her uncle. She is very submissive to him. When her uncle wants to marry off her with Sheikh
Mahmoud, Firdaus accepts that marriage although she does not like him at all.
Khalid Abou Fadl as a Moslem thinker said that although the society praise women role as a mother, women are portrayed as ones who are
imperfect and disobedient. So a wife should serve and be controlled by her husband. As a child, a girl is controlled by her father and as a society
member a girl is under controlled by all men. Fadl,2005:308. Firdaus also experience this. She is controlled by her husband,
Sheikh Mahmoud. She is unhappy with her marriage. Firdaus often gets physical abuse from her husband but she just silents and accepts that bad
treatment. She tries to complain to her uncle but it is useless. ”Her uncle said that all husband beat their wives and my uncle’s
wife said that her husband often beat her. I was said a respected Sheikh, well versed in the teachings of religion, and, he, therefore
could not possibly be in the habit of beating his wife. She replied that it was precisely men well versed in their religion who beat their
wives.The percepts of religion permitted such punishment. A virtous woman was not supposed to complain about her husband. Her duty
was perfect obedience.”Pp.46-47