Example: 48 Well, if one leaves ones tea on the wobbly tab.
2.3.2 Women‟s language
Lakoff  1975:53  proposed that  female‟s  speech  characterized  by  the  linguistic  feature
which she sees as comprising “women‟s language”, such as the following:
1.3.2.1 The use of hedges of various kinds
Lakoff started that female‟s speech seems in general to contain more instance of well, y‟ know, and so forth ; words that convey the sense that the speaker is uncertain about what he or
she  is  saying,  or    cannot  vouch  for  the  accuracy  of  the  statement.  There  words  are  fully legitimate  when,  in  fact,  this  is  the  case  for  the  example,  if  o
ne  says,  “Ethan  is  sorta  tall,” meaning  he‟s  neither  really  impressively  tall  nor  actually  short,  but  rather  middling,  though
toward the tall side: 5 feet 9 rather than 6 feet 5, say. A hedge shows up anyway; the speaker is perfectly certain of the truth
of the assertion and there‟s no danger of offense. So, these hedges do have their uses when one really has legitimate need for protection, or for deference if we are
afraid  that  by  making  a  certain  statement  we  are  overstepping  our  rights,  but  uses  to  excess, hedges,  like  question  intonation,  give  the  impression  that  the  speaker  lacks  of  authority  or
doesn‟t know what he‟s talking about.
Example: 49 you know, sort of, well, you see.
1.3.2.2 The use of tag question
The tag question is a syntactic device listed by Lakoff which may express uncertainty. A tag,  in  its  usage  as  well  as  its  syntactic  shape  in  English  is  midway  between  an  outright
statement and a yes-no question.  Female is uncertain about something, and indicates this with a tag  which  signals  doubt  about  what  she  asserting.  The  tag  appears  anyway  as  an  apology  for
amking an assertion at all. Anyone may do this if she lacks self-confidence, as everyone does in some  situations.  It  is  also  precisely  because  they  are  socialized  to  believe  that  asserting
themselves strongly isn‟t nice or ladylike, or even feminine. Lakoff in Holmes 1992: 318 said that  tag  question  may  be  functioned  to  express  affective  maning  as  facilitate  or  positive
politeness  device  and  to  soften  a  directive  or  criticism  and  as  confrontational  and  coercive devices.
Example: 50 she is very nice, is not she ?
1.3.2.3 The use of rising or question intonation on declaratives