Emma is a selfish person

plan. This is a sensitive topic for Mr. Woodhouse, but they try to tell him carefully. When first discussed on the subject, he was so sad, that, they were almost desperate. A second time, gave less pain. He began to think that he could not prevent it. But, something happened to Mrs. Weston’s poultry house. It was robbed. This situation took an effect toward Mr. Woodhouse. The Knightleys decided to take care of him in Hartfield. Austen, pp. 377-378 This situation gives positive impact for Emma. This situation gives positive impact for Emma. After Mr. Woodhouse has approved their marriage, she can fix the day for her marriage. This moment really makes Emma and Mr. Knightley feel happy. Finally, Emma married with Mr. Knightley and they become a happy couple forever. In this case, Emma faces an intrapersonal conflict in the form of a double approach-avoidance conflict. According to Worchel and Cooper, p. 461, such a conflict is the situation when an individual should choose one between two goals, each of which has both positive and negative aspects. Emma faces it after knowing that she falls in love with Mr. George Knightley and she wants to marry with him. But, if she becomes Mr. Knightley’s wife, Emma gets dilemma in deciding where Emma stays in Hartfield or Donwell Abbey. Actually, after her marriage, Emma never thinks about leaving her father alone, but Emma really understand if they stay in Hartfield, it will be hard for Mr. Knightley because he has to leave his own house and his habits in order to live together with Emma and Mr. Woodhouse in Hartfield. In order to solve the conflict, Emma chooses mediation. According to Isenhart and Spangle, pp. 45-152, mediation is a problem solving process that needs third party’s help. The participation of the third party is to guide the conflicting parties to solve the problem. In meditation, Emma tries to discuss about two difficult choices with Mr. Knightley about the decision whether they will stay in Hartfield or move to Donwell Abbey after their marriage. They respect each other and think about the solution for both of them. In this case, Emma gets dilemma when Emma wants to be honest with her heart that she loves Mr. Knightley and she wants to marry with him, but at the same time, she wants to take care of her father all the time even though she married with Mr. Knightley. Besides, Emma also thinks about Mr. Knightley’s feeling if she asks him to live in Hartfield to live together with her and Mr. Woodhouse. Emma wants her father, Mr. Woodhouse, approves her marriage and Mr. Knightley Emma tries to think about the best solution about this conflict together with Mr. Knightley. Fortunately, after Emma and Mr. Knightley having a meditation, Mr. Knightley’s feeling is just the same with Emma’s and he decides to live together with Emma and her father in Hartfield without any objection. It happens because Mr. Knightley really understands about Emma and her thoughts. Besides, he wants to make his beloved one feel happy. So, she could marry with Mr. Knightley and also take care of her father in Hartfield and Mr. Woodhouse would not be alone. In deeper analysis, the process of deciding whether Emma and Mr. Knightley will stay together with Mr. Woodhouse in Hartfield or not after their marriage is really hard. It is not only from Emma’s side but also Mr. Knightley