Ideal Family Review of Related Theories

15 study of psychology is related with the mind, its senses and human behavior. People’s mind controls their behavior and their behavior influences and is influenced in many ways. The writer uses the psychological approach to analyze the character behavior in expressing his lost love.

4. Ideal Family

Many peopl e dream of having an ideal family. Cheal says that “a family is considered to be any group which consists of people in intimate relationship which is believed to endure over time and across generations”. A family usually consists of complete parents and their children. According to Blessing and Ideal Family by Moon, an ideal family is “the place of the eternal love of parents, the eternal love of husband and wife, and the eternal love of children ”. An ideal family is described as a mother, a father and children. Everything looks perfect about this family. They live happily without any fights and respect each of members of the family http:www.unification.netbifbif-7-2a.html. Parents become the nearest position with which children can sustain love relationship throughout entire life. Through their love, parents show that they give security to their children because they want to keep them safe. Pease and Hawkes, in Gordon’s Human Development, say “Guidance is an important aspect of family responsibility, and knowledge of how parents pass on family and cultural values could give insight into the developmental pattern of the socialization of the child” 174 . PLAGIAT MERUPAKAN TINDAKAN TIDAK TERPUJI PLAGIAT MERUPAKAN TINDAKAN TIDAK TERPUJI 16 Family as a primary social group is formed by parents and children. There are two types of family; nuclear and extended family. Papalia, Olds and Feldman state that nuclear family is “kinship and household unit made up of one or two parents and their natural, adopted, or stepchildren”. The bigger is extended family. Extended family is “kinship network of parents, children and other relatives, sometimes living together in an extended- family household” 14. Due to industrialization and migration, this multigenerational family is becoming less. Children will leave their parents somewhere and establish their own small family.

5. Relation Between Mother and Son