Common Kinship KARONESE SOCIETY’S KINSHIP

3. KARONESE SOCIETY’S KINSHIP

3.1 Common Kinship

Husband is a married man who has a wife. Any man who has married a girl is called the husband of the woman who he has married. This system is called common. The situation of this thing happened to any man in the world of any society. For example, we can look at the chart of a family drawn in pages 15 and 16. A wife is a woman who has been married by a man. Any woman who has a husband is called the wife of the man who marries the woman. There will be no woman is called a wife of someone if she does not have a husband. For example, we can look at the chart of the family written on pages 15 and 16. Father and Mother are the parents of their child or children. When the parents have the child or children with the sex of male they are called the son or sons of the parents, and for the female they are called the daughter or daughters. Brother or brothers are addressed to the boy or boys among the children, and so sister or sisters will be called to the daughter of the same father and mother. Uncle and Aunt are the brother and sister of our parents. Father in Law and Mother in Law are the parents of our wife or husband. Brother or brothers in Law and Sister or sisters in Law are the brother or brothers of our wife or husband. Grand Father and Grand Mother are the parents of our parents, and as the opposite we are the Grand Son or sons and Grand Daughter or daughters of them. Universitas Sumatera Utara Nephew or nephews are the son or sons and daughter or daughters of our sisters or brothers. We, the children who are of the same as the nephew of the uncle and aunt are called cousins. Great Grand Father and Great Grand Mother are the parents of our grand father and grand mother, and so as the opposite that we are thedir Great Grand Son or sons and so Great Grand Daughter or daughters. The fundamental thing to talk or discuss about Rakut si Telu that Karonese society has is the family names. As it has been mention in chapter two of this thesis that in general Karonese has five different family names. The names are Ginting, Karo-Karo, Tarigan, Sembiring, and Perangin-angin. Ginting has fifteen sub-names, they are Jadibata, Sugihen, Garamata, Gurupatih, Suka, Babo, Jawak, Pase, Ajartambun, Beras, Seragih, Capah, Tumangger, Munte, and Manik. The sub-names of Karonese-Karonese are Barus, Kaban, Sinuhaji, Purba, Kacaribu, Ketaren, Sinuraya, Sinulingga, Sekali, Kemit, Jung ujung, Sinukaban, Sinubulan, Samura, Sukapiring, and Sitepu. The family name Karonese-Karonese has sixteen sub-names. Tarigan has thirteen sub-names. They are Tua, Gerneng, Girsang, Gana-gana, Jampang, Pekan, Purba, Sibero, Silangit, Tambak, Tambun, Tegur, and Bondong. Sembiring has eighteen sub-names, they are Milala, Depari, Busuk, Bunuaji, Brahmana, Colia, Gurukinayan, Keling, Muham, Pandia, Pelawi, Pandebayang, Sinukapor, Tekang, Keloko, Kembaren, Sinulaki, and Sinupayung. Perangin-angin has eleven sub-names, they are Bangun, Benjerang, Kacinambun, Keliat, Laksa, Manu, Namohaji, Pencawan, Penggarun, Perbesi, Pinem, and Sebayang. Universitas Sumatera Utara In order to understand the term Rakut si Telu or Daliken si Telu well we need to study the diagram drawn below. Let the writer pretends that the diagram or the kinship chart belongs to the writer of this thesis family. She is Desma Beeru Bangun. When we look at the arrows which is showing the children of the family, we can see that the family’s names are also inherited by the children no matter the children are boys or girls. We can see the kinship chat that A.1 inherits his Bangun to all of his children and so to his grandsons and grand-daughters. According to the chart that B.1 and B.2 family are the Kalimbubu of A.1 and A.2 family. Tomas Karo Sekali becomes the Kalimbubu of Kongsi Bangun because he marries the daughter and sister of B.1 and B.2. She is the sister of A.2 ois the sister of B.1. And then as its extension we can see on the kinship chart that Kongsi Bangun has three children, it means that all of the Kongsi Bangun has children are also the Anak Beru of B.1 and B.2 and as its opposite that all of the Kongsi Bangun generation become the Anak Beru of B.1 and B.2. The opposite of Kalimbubu is Anak Beru.

3.2 Extended Kinship