Dominant The Personality Description of Nyai Ontosoroh
45 really loves her daughter; therefore she does not want her daughter to be sent back
to the Netherland. Those things mentioned can be an indication that Nyai Ontosoroh is a
dominant person also. After she experiences the bad thing and goes through the entire chaotic situation with her husband and her husband’s first legitimate son,
she decides not to bother anymore about her husband. In addition to that, even though Nyai Ontosoroh succeeds in managing her big company and controlling
her employees, she faces a big failure in managing her own family and in controlling her two children.
Her eldest son, Robert Mellema does not think that she is capable in controlling the company because she is a Native Indonesian. He also considers her
as his enemy because she takes a side against his father and asks him as well as Annelies not to pay attention on his father anymore. Annelies, on the other hand is
a dependable woman without any initiative because she is modelled by Nyai Ontorosoh to be her second image. She is always being under her mother’s
shadow and is incapable in dealing with the hardships in life because she knows that her mother will always stand and protect her.
“And because of that she failed in another field? She doesn’t understand how to bring up her children. She has placed them in the middle of her
own pe rsonal conflicts. It’s not just a deficiency—it’s a failure,
Mr.Minke.”pp.249-250” It is also a big contradiction in her life because she is basically a loving
caring mother. Despite her position as a controller in the company, she fails in
46 controlling her own family. Her son, Robert Mellema leaves the house in the end
because of her dissatisfaction with the condition at their house. Her daughter, Annelies cannot fight back for her life most of the time because she always
depends to her mother. The main reason of her behaviour is because she places the children in the middle of her conflict with her husband.