Conflict Resolution of Keep Struggling for Oral Examination or Giving
As I approached the entrance, my tweleve-year-old boy hurtled out the door, hid gym bag in tow. “Hey, where are you going?” I asked in
Chinese. “I‟ve got basketball practice Mom. I‟m going to be late.” His Chinese, although not quite as perfect as his English, was excellent.
Jason‟s face was so similiar to his father‟s, Matt would have recognized him in a moment had he seen that photo in my office: the golden eyes, the
bushy eyebrows, even the lock of hair that always fell in his face p. 118.
From the situations above, Kimberly solves her intrapersonal conflict by using mediation by Isenhart and Spagle 2000. Kimberly engages Curt, Annette,
and her mother as the third person. Curt, An nette, and Kimberly‟s mother are
good mediators. Kimberly regards them as the safe place to share everything. They listen to her story and they do not blame Kimberly for her mistake. They
help Kimberly to see objectively and give her greater responsibility to decide the solution. Finally Kimberly decides to face the fact that she will be a mother.
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