Transformative Learning Theory Theoretical Description
                                                                                15 people only  a few times to  avoid  regression into a dependent  relationship on the
therapist. Second, do nothing for the person or group that he can do for himself if he has to. Coping muscles grow stronger through exercise. Making decisions or
bearing  responsibilities  for  others  tends  to  weaken  them  Seifert    Clinebell, 1999.
A  theory  of  the  release  of  personal  potentialities  Seifert    Clinebell, 1999  also  suggests  that  the  major  natural  resource  for  growth  and  change  is
people-but people turned on by experiences of personal growth, turned up in their discovery  of  eternal  meaning  in  daily  life,  including  a  fresh  awakening  to  the
reality of God, and turned out in rediscovery of their fellow passengers on planet earth. Identifying the stages of change tends to hide the continuity of this personal
growth  process.  There  is  a  flow  to  any  living  process  that  is  more  basic  than  its phases.
Based on Covey 1989, habit is the overlapping of knowledge, skill, and attitude. The seven habits help people to be more effective.
The seven habits based on Covey 1989 are: a.
Be proactive: merely taking initiatives for vision. b.
Begin  with  the  end  in  mind:  starting  with  the  clear  understanding  of the  destination  and  it  is  based  on  the  principle  that  all  things  are
created twice for leadership. c.
Put  first  things  first:  allowing  to  achieve  self-mastery  and  self- discipline for management.
d. Think win-win: seeking solutions so that everyone can win.
16 e.
Seek  first  to  understand,  then  to  be  understood:  listening  and communicating with respect for the other person.
f. Synergy: communicating with respect and creativity, learning, gaining
insight and producing solutions to problems and issues better than any originally proposed.
g. Sharpen the saw: preserving and enhancing the greatest asset owned.
The seven habits above are the keys to be effective people. Covey 1989 shared  that  one  thing  happens  when  you  agree  to  teach  something  is  that  you
change  your  role.  Although  C ovey’s seven habits are based on Western culture,
they  can  be  implemented  in  Indonesia  to  see  the  changing  behaviour  of  the research participants who are Indonesians.
                