Parent‟s Divorce The Causes of the Abuses Experienced by Tess
she sees and hears about sex, she remembers the time when she was abused by the punters.
Ronnie was coming out of prison in a couple of months, and thought I wanted to get away from home, I wasn‟t keen on living with him again. He
was a nice man, and I did like him, but I just couldn‟t stand the sex. Stevens, 2008: 275
The third prove that Tess suffers from genophobia is when she wanted to
get away from her partner, Ronnie. From the text above, it could be seen that Tess does not like the sexual intercourse she have with Ronnie. As previously stated by
the researcher that Tess sees sex as something horrible and made her disgusted, that is the reason why she does not like sex. Her hatred towards sex is due to the
sexual abuses she receives in her childhood. According to the text above, Tess wanted to leave Ronnie before he is free from prison, and she does not want to
live with him anymore.
I tried not to think of what had happened, but the memory kept sweeping back. I didn‟t have any more tears left to cry, though, so at
least I didn‟t disturb the other kids. Push it away, push it away, I kept telling myself. You got through the
other times, nobody died, you‟ll get through this. You know you will. Mother said you‟ll never have to do it again, so it‟s over. If there was one
thing I clung to, it was that – it was over. I was still trying to sort it out in
my head, that I was going to stand my ground. If Mother ever changed her mind and said I had to go out, I‟d say no. Stevens, 2008: 241
The fourth prove that Tess suffers from genophobia could be seen from the
quotation above. The trauma of sexual abuse occurs to Tess. The memory of the time when she was sexually abused by the punters flashed back to her mind and
this makes her feel uneasy. The sadness and the fear of the abuses really is a burden for her. It is proved by her statement above that she does not have any
more tears left to cry. It means that her sadness and fear is too much for her until it makes her unable to express it by crying. Tess also tries to forget all of the
memories of the sexual abuses she suffers by assuring herself that it would not happen again in the future because mother already told her that she does not have
to go to visit the punters again. In addition, Tess assures herself by trying to gain the courage to speak up against mother whenever mother ask her to visit the
punter again.