and difficult to neutralize tensions. One can say confidently, in addition to having high self-confidence
born anyway. They should have a good Komuikasi, has a firmness, have good self penapilan and able to control his
feelings. Then the people who have high self-confidence not only have the confidence or the confidence mind
alone behavior alone but must have it both ways. From the above description, it can be concluded
that this aspect of self-confidence that will be used as indicators in this study were 1 communication, 2
firmness, 3 self-image, and 4 patience.
e. Indicators of insecurity
Santrock 2003: 338 argues that the indicator is negative behaviors of individuals who are not confident such as:
1 Do not touch the appropriate physical or terminate the
contract. 2 Humbling yourself verbally, self-depreciation.
3 Talking too loud all of a sudden, or with a flat tone.
4 Do not express the views or opinions, especially when
asked.
According to Judge 2005: 8-9 the characteristics of people who do not believe in yourself such as:
1 Being easily anxious in the face of problems with certain difficulty level.
2 Being nervous and sometimes spoke nervously. 3 Do not knowing how to develop themselves to have
certain advantages. 4 Often being aloof from groups considered more of him.
5 Being easy to despair. 6 Tending to rely on others to solve the problem.
7 Often reacting negatively in dealing with problems. For example, by eliminating a responsibility or isolating
themselves that cause distrust him getting worse. According Mastuti 2008: 14-15, individuals who lack
confidence, there are some traits or characteristics such as: 1 Trying to show theconformity attitude, solely for the sake
of gaining recognition and acceptance of the group. 2 Saving fear of rejection.
3 Feeling difficult to accept the reality of self especially receiving shortcomings and own abilities.
4 Having fear of failure, thus avoiding any risks and do not dare to set a target to succeed.
5 Always placingpositioning themselves as the last one, because the judge himself incapable.
6 Having external locus of control easily surrender to fate, the time depends on the state and recognition acceptance and
help from others. From the description above it can be concluded that
children who doubt or lack of confidence in the learning process is always a negative view of himself at the time of the activity in
the learning process. There is always a shortage in him compared to others. Children who are skeptical about the ability of
themselves are usually less able to convey a message to others because one factor contributing to lack confidence comes from
the ability to communicate verbally, by talking.
f. Causative factors in insecurity
