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A. Remaja Putra

1. Bentuk Kekerasan Dalam Pacaran Fisik dan mental batin II.491, II.496, II.498, II.500, II.504, IV.683; 685, IV.687, IV.695, V.613, V.617, V.615, V.619 Fisik, batin, pikiran IV.689; 691 Fisik, batin, mental, sosial IV.697 Fisik II.493

2. Pengertian Kekerasan Dalam Pacaran

2.1 Pengertian kekerasan fisik  Kekerasan yang mengenai fisik, melukai merusak fisik II.558-559, II.532, II.564, II.569, IV.833-834, IV.837, V.712, V.724, V.741, V.736-739  Tindakan yang melukai pasangan IV.809, IV.826-827, V.733  Kekerasan yang melibatkan tubuh, menggunakan fisik II.538, II.570  Pelampiasan II.567  Kekerasan luar, misalnya memukul IV.814-816  Kekerasan yang dapat dirasakan secara langsung IV.819  Semua yang berupa tindakan menganiaya menyakiti V.639 2.2 Pengertian kekerasan mentalbatin  Kekerasan yang membuat orang sakit hati, menyakiti hati, membuat luka pada hati II.572, II.573, II.574, II.575, II.576, V.746, V.749-750, V.752-753, V.756  Kekerasan yang menyentuh mental yang sulit dilupakan IV.845-847, IV.866  Kekerasan yang sulit dilupakan biasanya menyebabkan stres IV.852-853  Kekerasan yang menyebabkan orang mengalami gangguan jiwa IV.856-859 106 2.3 Pengertian kekerasan sosial  Kekerasan yang menyebabkan orangtua dari salah satu pasangan itu merasa terhina tercemarkan nama baiknya IV.1064-1067  Kekerasan yang membuat pasangan dikenal jelek di masyarakat IV.1075-1076 2.4 Pengertian kekerasan pikiran  Kekerasan yang menyebabkan pasangan itu berbeda pendapat IV.1081-1082 3. Perilaku Kekerasan Dalam Pacaran 3.1 Kekerasan Fisik  Memukul II.262, II.277, II.291, II.433, II.537, IV.107, IV.385, IV.415, IV.722, V.362, V.630  Menampar II.241, II.264, II.276, II.330, IV.111, IV.322, IV.346, IV.368, V.220  Membunuh IV.443-444, IV.715, V.98-101, V.242  Menendang II.442, IV.109, IV.710, IV.719  Mencakar II.245, II.452, II.544  Menjambak IV.712, IV.719  Melemparkan panci V.287-288  Mengguyur air II.328  Mengkasari IV.726  Berkelahi II.538  Menganiaya V.636 3.2 Kekerasan Mental Batin  Adu mulut cek-cok mulut, saling menyalahkan II.311, II.326, II.433, II.454, II.532  Menduakan selingkuh IV.470, IV.607, IV.747, V.655  Mencaci-maki, berkata kasar, misuh IV.638, IV.665, V.349, V.645  Menyakiti hati IV.611, V.251-254, V.657  Memaksakan kehendak V.378, V.663  Bertengkar II.218, II.469  Cemburu V.651, V.653 107  Berbeda pendapat II.514, II.524  Salah paham II.450, II.519, II.530  Berprasangka buruk curiga V.355  Membohongi IV.649  Mengajak putus, meninggalkan pacar, mencampakkan IV.654, IV.752  Bermusuhan II.471  Memfitnah IV.643, V.644-645  Melarang bergaul posesif IV.739  Saling mendiamkan V.665  Pelecehan IV.675  Memperkosa V.364 3.3 Kekerasan Pikiran  Berbeda pendapat IV.757  Ketidakpercayaan IV.763  Meninggalkan pacar IV.761  Berkata kasar IV.768 3.4 Kekerasan Sosial  Mencemarkan nama baik keluarga IV.788  Melarang bermain dengan teman posesif IV.794

B. Remaja Putri

1. Bentuk Kekerasan Dalam Pacaran Fisik dan mental batin I.523, III.563, VI.302 2. Pengertian Kekerasan Dalam Pacaran 2.1 Pengertian kekerasan fisik  Suatu tindakan yang menyebabkan fisik atau tubuh terluka I.580, I.583, I.588-589, VI.357, VI.359  Menyakiti seseorang secara fisik, menyiksa diri III.629, VI.358  Tindakan emosional dari pasangan namun diluapkan secara fisik III.620-621 108 2.2 Pengertian kekerasan mental atau batin  Suatu tindakan yang menyebabkan perasaan terluka I.596, I.598, I.600, I.607-608, III.633, III.660  Tindakan yang berakibat membebani pikiran, membuat stres, dan gila I.611, III.641; 645; 647-648  Kata-kata tindakan yang bukan fisik yang menusuk hati III.655-656  Kekerasan yang menyebabkan trauma mendalam VI.367- 368 3. Perilaku Kekerasan Dalam Pacaran 3.1 Kekerasan Fisik  Menampar I.262, I.291, I.468, I.476, I.529, III.409, III.422-423, III.532, III.573, III.577, VI.140, VI.157, VI.161-162, VI.183, VI.192, VI.202  Memukul I.295-296, I.360, I.470, I.485, I.527  Menendang III.532, VI.219  Memaki di depan umum II.577-578, III.593  Menonjok III.425, VI.333  Menjambak I.497  Mencubit sampai membekas I.501  Menceburkan ke kolam III.422  Menyiram dengan air III.409-410  Membunuh I.371, I.546  Membenturkan ke tembok VI.194-195  Menyelupkan ke bak mandi : VI.231  Berkelahi VI.228  Memperkosa VI.331  Marah-marah III.577  Menduakan III.594  Mendiamkan pasangan III.578-579 3.2 Kekerasan Mental Batin  Menduakan selingkuh I.314, III.355-356, III.380-381, III.535, III.594 PLAGIAT MERUPAKAN TINDAKAN TIDAK TERPUJI 109  Memaki, saling mengumpat III.342, III.415, III.427, III.536, VI.268, VI.342  Terlalu posesif I.380-384, I.473  Marah, berteriak III.414  Membentak VI.267  Senang bersikap romantis dengan perempuan lain di depan ceweknya III.313-315  Memaksakan kehendak I.549  Cemburu I.557  Kurang kepercayaan dari pasangan I.563  Membicarakan pasangan di belakangnya I.566  Mendiamkan pasangan III.578-579  Membohongi VI.340  Memaksa pasangan melakukan hubungan intim I.487  Memaksa pasangan untuk berciuman I.464 PLAGIAT MERUPAKAN TINDAKAN TIDAK TERPUJI