We might also feel anger toward or rejection from our loved one who chose to We may also feel guilty shameful if we do not feel pain. We might feel that we must I cannot live without him her. 2. I am not secure without him her.

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11. We might also feel anger toward or rejection from our loved one who chose to

leave the earth plane at this time, leaving us here alone. We may interpret this as a form of rejection, abandonment and lack of love. A.1. Even though I feel angry towards name _____ for leaving me here, I deeply and profoundly love myself. A.2. Even though until now I felt angry towards name _____ for leaving me here, I now trust that powers higher than heshe control life and death.

B. I choose want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit to be free from

feeling anger towards name _____ for leaving me here. C. Reminder Phrase = Anger towards name _____ for leaving me here.

12. We may also feel guilty shameful if we do not feel pain. We might feel that we must

feel unhappy and that we should never express joy in front of others for some time at least. A.1. Even though I feel guilty shameful that I am not as unhappy as I think I “should” be, I deeply and profoundly love myself. A.2. Even though until now I felt guilty shameful that I am not as unhappy as I thought I “should” be, I now realize that such feelings help no one.

B. I choose want, deserve, allow myself, accept, realize that it is in my benefit to be free from

feeling guilty - shameful that I am not as unhappy as I think I “should” be.

C. Reminder Phrase = Guilt - shame that I am not as unhappy as I think I “should” be.

There may be many other emotions that are not listed here. Negative Thought Forms About the Death of a Loved One The following beliefs can add to our emotional disturbance and some can also act in a way to create forms of psychological reversal. If you find that any of these beliefs are working within you, you might want to employ EFT on them, or even better, on the emotions that they create.

1. I cannot live without him her. 2. I am not secure without him her.

3. No one else but he or she can give me joy or security.