I am acceptable, lovable and interesting because of who I am and not because of my The loss of a loved one is not a punishment, but is instead a great opportunity for spiritual I am a pure child of God and He loves me unconditionally. No one can be respon

Robert Elias Najemy - 87 - Remove Pain – Physical and Emotional Positive Thought Forms There are some beliefs or thought forms, which can be very supportive in our effort to cope with the death of a loved one. If you find any of these helpful, write them down with large letters and place them where you can see them often. Feel free to alter them to apply more appropriately to your own specific needs. They may also be used as positive affirmations in your EFT sequences. 1. I am an eternal soul and have the power to live an abundant and meaningful life. All is within me.

2. My loved one is an eternal, immortal soul who continues to live in another dimension more

beautiful than the one in which I currently exist. 3. Since my loved one is very well and far closer to his or her true nature and to God, I can be glad for him her and can give joy to myself and to those around me.

4. God is within and around me, so I always feel secure, protected and tranquil.

5. Everything happens according to a perfect and just Divine Plan that gives each of us what he or

she needs for his or her evolution as a soul. For some reason, it was best for my loved one to move on to another level of existence. As for my own evolution toward God, it is best that I continue on here, even without him or her. 6. Everyone on this earth has lost loved ones not only me. We will all eventually lose all the people we know because we are only temporarily on this earth and our departure is perfectly natural.

7. The departure of the soul from the restrictions of the temporary physical body is a beautiful

liberation from a very limited incarnated state.

8. The loss of my loved one is a great opportunity for spiritual development through the cultivation

of inner power, tranquility, security and self- acceptance.

9. I accept the perfection of Divine Wisdom, and I forgive God and everyone for what is happening to

me. I release all from any responsibility for my reality.

10. My loved one would want me to be happy and to continue my life creatively and beautifully.

11. I am acceptable, lovable and interesting because of who I am and not because of my

relationship with someone.

12. The loss of a loved one is not a punishment, but is instead a great opportunity for spiritual

development and inner growth.

13. I am a pure child of God and He loves me unconditionally.

14. No one can be responsible for someone else’s death. Each soul has selected the hour and the

place when he or she will leave. Others are simply the instruments we use for our departure.

15. I can, even now, correct my relationship with my loved one with inner concentration and

prayer.

16. We are all evolving souls, all children of God. I open myself to my brothers in the family of

humanity who are now with me on this planet. My loved one would want me to do so.

17. I share my sorrow and joy with others. We are one big family of humanity.

18. I find meaning in life by serving, creating and evolving. This is why I have incarnated.

19. Life is a gift of God, and it is my duty to use it for my benefit and that of others.

20. Today, 40,000 parents have lost their children. Tomorrow, another 40,000 parents will

lose their children. I am not alone in pain. The soul’s departure from the physical body is a natural part of life on earth.

21. There is only one universal life force, which expresses itself through all beings. The same